Bad Day Yesterday! Son Insulted Any Arabic Person

[madjon]

theres a lot there for him to deal with, im a bit tweaked out at the moment so pleases bear withme, but the thing that may help him is to talk to someone he can relate with, theres a chance he may talk to a vet, someone who he feels may understand, theres more of us than you can shake a stick at but there are few of those who can help unless he wants it, gulf2 may be too recent for him to even think about right now, he sounds like hes in a bad way at the moment but doesnt know what to do or how to do it, trying to hold onto something , something he feels was important but is gone while trying to deal with what happened, it may be he is needing to be ready, but i couldnt say, if you in illinois, there is a local chapter of vets, some may be willing to help, maybe leave a leaflet or something around, i dont know, if he wants to start to find a way he will have to first take a step forward, pushing only bogs you down, makes you feel pressured,
he is still the same person somewhere inside but when he comes back(in his mind) he wont be the same as before he left, he will take a long time to come back, but he will come back if he can overcome things in him, and that will be a long hard road, this board may be a good way forward but only if he wants to take a step forward, i dont know if any of this helps or makes sense at the moment, so please forgive if im off base at mo, 17 years and i still end up fragged at times but i came back, so can he given time and help he needs when he feels ready ,