PandaPower
Learning
Hello all,
So I really struggle with being "told" that I need to be in at a certain time/ need to be present in a certain building. It has to do with being held hostage by daddy-dearest repeatedly growing up. It is not that I have to physically leave the office - I just need to know that I can. However, where I live very few workplaces offer flexible hours. My current work place does, but my boss is abusive and I need to leave. I do have other work options - one involves fixed and strictly enforced timings, the other involves contact with current boss. I am feeling a little hopeless right now. Outside the house was where I felt safe, now it seems wherever I work will also be unsafe. Has anyone found any places where they feel safe? Im feeling hopeless thinking there are no safe work options, and bullies and power dynamics are everywhere. If there are no safe spaces, how do you manage?
Thanks!
So I really struggle with being "told" that I need to be in at a certain time/ need to be present in a certain building. It has to do with being held hostage by daddy-dearest repeatedly growing up. It is not that I have to physically leave the office - I just need to know that I can. However, where I live very few workplaces offer flexible hours. My current work place does, but my boss is abusive and I need to leave. I do have other work options - one involves fixed and strictly enforced timings, the other involves contact with current boss. I am feeling a little hopeless right now. Outside the house was where I felt safe, now it seems wherever I work will also be unsafe. Has anyone found any places where they feel safe? Im feeling hopeless thinking there are no safe work options, and bullies and power dynamics are everywhere. If there are no safe spaces, how do you manage?
Thanks!