Relationship Combat vet running away again

[dulcia]

I mean, the weather seems to be getting better? Lol. Maybe a trip to the rodeo will help (jk jk)

 

[RRT13]

@dulcia haha no way! Even I wont go to the rodeo! Way too many people for me! Plus hes over 4 hours away from me!

 

[RRT13]

Well here's an update so to speak.

I spoke to him yesterday on text. It had been a few days without talking and I saw that he had visited out of state for a week. I'm glad he got out and had some stress relief. I noticed that an ex from 10 years ago lives in the same area where he visited. I looked on her fb page and saw he had liked her pic last few days too. So you can put two and two together. He seemed very happy on text and his visit to that state and I was happy for him. I I told him to keep in touch and don't be a stranger. He stated he would be moving to that state at the end of the month. I told him good luck and how Ill always care about him and he will always have a special place in my heart and I hope he's happy with his move. I genuinely am happy for him if it works out but then I think see a bigger picture of what's about to happen.
A part of me feels he is finding an excuse to move away from his family and maybe this ex can be a temp solution for a few months. I told him Ill be around if it doesn't work and he said if it doesn't he would go to the woods next. I know we will keep in touch and be friends. I feel more closure with him yesterday than I have before and felt like I could finally let go. He was my first and only relationship after my divorce last year. I wish things would've worked out but until then I have to take care of myself first.

 

[Snowflakes]

felt like I could finally let go

I have to take care of myself first.

Both are awesome to hear. I’m happy you are finding peace.