Dealing With Feeling Like I'm Being Targeted....

[safenow]

when you move do you have to rediagnosed again

No.

Also do you know if mental health files are kept elsewhere other than the facility itself?

Not unless they are part of computer network setup plan.

Enjoy your reading.

 

[Tribulations]

Thanks Safenow, so if I were to see a new therapist or get disability to try and help with bills for the time being what or how do you prove it? I'm sorry I'm so ignorant on the subject, everyone keeps telling me about medical files this and that. Are they referring to the charts/folders maybe?

I have your diary open in another tab, I am reading it now. I never knew milk helped plants, calcium maybe? Thank you for all your help, patience, support and understanding. I think I am going to try and play with my pup, she always makes me smile.

 

[safenow]

Pet are the best for any problem. lol. Each state is different. You might want to call the office of social services, and as them what type of documentation you need to file.

 

[Tribulations]

Thank you for the information Safenow, I have put off claiming for years. I guess I didn't want to seem weak or hopeless to society. However now that I am ready and have more time I want to work on this. So I suppose what I'm saying is, I'd rather just take the assistance, and move to a place where I can see more progress. We are going to talk to the owner today, she was supposed to move them 2 weeks after the incident which was months ago. We told her to wait on it to see if it got better, we were trying to be nice so the husband didn't have to pay to switch utilities, etc. However after yesterday, he can kiss my you know what.

The way he acted to a simple text was ridiculous, and then coming home earlier than usual when he knew my girlfriend wasn't home and knocking aggressively and calling me names to provoke me. My girlfriend said he was trying to get me to cause a scene so I would look like the bad guy and we would get in trouble. Or try to get me to fight, but I didn't. Now before you all think I'm being paranoid, here are some facts.

*He was told by my girlfriend prior that I wouldn't answer the door due to anxiety.
*He came home early and aggressively knocked on our door aboht 6 plus times with 3 or 4 knocks each time.
*He then went upstairs, opened his sliding glass door and called me a p***y.
*While still out on the porch he started throwing thinga around and playing dog and horn/siren apps.
*He went back inside and started stomping all horrible.
*He then got a text from my girlfriend reiterating that if he needs something he needs to wait until she gets home.
*When she got home she texted him as well as before she got home, asking if he needed something or to talk.
*He said no he was just going to go to bed.
*He wasn't in bed because we heard him walking, trying to be quiet to make us think they were asleep.

Which again, makes me feel this was an intentional attack towards me. Hopefully we can get this sorted out today.

 

[safenow]

(((( Tribulatons )))), I hope it gets sorted out quickly. I"m sure glad your girlfriend is on top of things. It helps when you have someone on your side.

 

[Tribulations]

We have been together for 6 years, 7 in October. We did split up for about 3 maybe 4months or so, but got back together. She has been my only light really her and the dogs. She is a very patient person, I don't know how the heck she does it. Especially on the days I'm being a mischievous little snot and play silly pranks on her lol.

She is not very happy with the guy upstairs, at all. She normally has the patience of a saint, but when she gets fired up oh boy watch out. She said she is going to talk to the owner and either get them moved or not pay rent to save for a new place to move, since the apartment broke their end of the lease. Today is going to be stressful, I can feel it in the air. So I am trying to emotionally prepare myself, hoping it will get better though.

 

[Tribulations]

So the landlord said to our apartment manager friend that she refuses to talk about it. She walked right past my girlfriend and ignored her. When my girlfriend tried to pursue her she was told by our friend that if we keep pushing the issue the land lady would get "evil" and that she was an evil person.

My partner is going to call a lawyer that is familiar with fair housing stuff. *Sigh* You know trying to do things the right way has made me feel defenseless. Where is our defense as tenants you know? I mean the other officeworker ddidn't even know what it was and immediately said "well then why doesn't she get her meds up?". I'm sorry but meds alone won't take this away, and it goes to show how ignorant people can be. Thank goodness for this forum where people can relate.

I just want to make it very clear that this is not an attempt as using this as a crutch. If it were I wouldn't have done all the things I have to prevent it from getting escalated to this. We have been civil (again aside from the one time I went off on the wife AFTER she started the mess), we have moved our bed to the middle of the room and have tucked a towel under our bathroom door. We have tried to mimic sounds so they can hear how loud it really is, we have offered to let them hear and view both audio and visual recordings. At this point I am at a loss at what to do, am being targeted, and it is detrimental to my health.

If anyone has other ideas I can try or advice on what I am about to face please share. Thanks.

 

[safenow]

Wait until your attorney gets back to you. It is against the fair housing act (which is a government thing not a state by state thing) that prohibits excess noise. They can force your landlord to obey or pay a huge fine.

Now, with that said, be advised, your land lord will retaliate for having been turned in. Do you guys have friends you can stay with until you have the funds to move?

 

[Tribulations]

No, not close.... I moved here from my hometown a couple years back. We are in, my girlfriend's home state. Her friends here are from high school and she doesn't talk to most. We have 1 friend here, my friend but he lives 2 hours away and that would interfere with her job. Even then I don't know how long we could stay there for. He's older kind of like a really cool uncle.

I know this is a sticky situation as both the neighbors upstairs, and myself are both protected under fha. However, they have been told nicely plenty of times. So I think that voids their protection, and they are excessively loud as well. It's not normal sounds, if that makes sense.

Now shortly after trying to talk to the land lady, my girlfriend starts getting spoofed calls. Whether or not it is them isn't confirmed because they are using an app. So we filed a complaint with the fcc because that is illegal. I just wish I wasn't being bullied and being told if I retaliate defense or not we will be evicted.

My girlfriend is calling a lawyer on her lunch, I don't do well talking on the phone honestly. I am better with writing, I articulate myself better. The worst is the guy upstairs is lying or keeping parts of the story out to make him look good. It is ridiculous, I was forthright about my negative actions.

I can't wait for our internet to be back so I can start a journal. The editor keeps bugging out on me, so even copying and pasting is a task. I started it on a memo on my phone so I can just retype when I get online access to my computer again.

I don't understand why people retaliate because you turn them in for something they should have taken care of in the first place. *sigh* That's life I guess.

As always thank you Safenow.

This situation makes me mad at myself for trying to do this alone for so long. As well as turning down resources meant to help people like me. I know there's nothing I can do but what I am now. I just feel dumb for not accepting defeat in that battle to help win this war.

 

[Tribulations]

So an update, we have found 2 lawyers. We got a number to a lawyer from a friend of ours and they referred us to 2 lawyers who are well experienced in the matter. We are going to explain everything from a to z, so I am hoping they can help us. I just want out of here at this point, there are a lot of negatives here. The one I'm most concerned about is my health though, hence wanting to move. This place is not safe for me, and they didn't want to fix it like they were supposed to. Wish me luck, I'm going to need it.

 

[safenow]

Wish me luck, I'm going to need it.

Consider it done.

 

[Tribulations]

Thanks Safenow *hugs*.

She already tried to evict us, she tried to cover her tracks before we got a lawyer. She was snooping through all kinds of stuff in our folder in the front office our friend told us. Also our friend said she didn't want to but the land lady made her. My girlfriend lost her previous job recently, and got a new one. The problem is the Friday she gets paid now is a week later, and we paid rent on her old schedule. The land lady was trying to evict us for non payment even though we have the money. I hope this is making sense.

The friend who referred us to the lawyer is also a real estate agent, she is my girlfriend's old coworker. So I definitely owe her some home cooked meals and goodies. Right now I am just hoping for the best but expecting the worst.