Relationship Do I Go Up Or Leave Him And Try To Work Myself??

[Sunshine71]

Hi all

After a few OK days hubby has just thrown a wobbler - he is trying to build his business and I am nothing but supportive.

Its tough as he isnt bringing in any £'s - I have mentioned this before as to be honest he is rubbish with money too.

He is running a workshop this weekend and only has 2 people booked - so I thought lets chat on how to maybe get 4 or even 6 people to book a place. Its not worth their while running it for 2 people.

He has told me to get out, go away, slammed the door and I now have chest pains again.

Today he has washed the car, tidied up and all great things - however it isnt helping pay the bills and I am getting worried again as I am paying for everything as well as bringing my son up.

After a few OK days this is really disappointing - people pay me for my advice!!

It tough - if I dont step in he will continue to drift - when I do step in (as I enjoy talking about business) he throws a wobbler....

I wish he hadn't worked from home today - I have lost an hour now due to his upsetting words and mood swings.

Do I go up or leave him and try to work myself??

Sunshine xx

 

[Bilby]

If I were you (and obviously I'm not), I would try to leave him to it. His behaviour is obviously very upsetting for you and impacts on your ability to get what you need done. I would try to get on with your own work.

 

[Sunshine71]

Thanks Bilby... It is tough and I have left him to get on as such but knowing he is struggling is so stressful - I have to get on as I have clients and pay the bills... He doesn't really have a clue as to how to get work & finds it overwhelming ... Its a tough one.

Thanks for your reply. I am doing a bit of both really. Be great to hear what others do...

Much love

Sunshine x