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Other Falling apart - recently diagnosed with bpd (borderline personality disorder)

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I had BPD long before I had cPTSD? At least this really well-meaning therapist, a girl really young enough to be my daughter I think I met with her a couple years? I was stuffing pain killers by the handful and not really telling her the extent and she was trying to say I had substance abuse issues, the nerve. When she couldn't decide to what to diagnose me with her DSM in hand, her and her boss decided BPD was a good one because "that was the diagnosis they gave everyone they couldn't figure out." Never mind I know I tried to tell her about the sex stuff when I was a kid? Everyone just brushed past that like it was nothing, the main reason being I could barely mention it. But it was trauma and it was written all over me and anyone should have seen it. They didn't. I realize now that there were two forces at work always inside me one trying to tell and the other trying to kill me before I could tell. They almost got me. : )
 
"that was the diagnosis they gave everyone they couldn't figure out."

What bullshit! Such horrible "therapists" that don't deserve that title! BPD, just like every other disorder, has a dignostic criteria. If you dont meet it then you dont have BPD. Im hoping CPTSD comes to the DSM. My therapist agrees I dont fit so squarly in BPD and so many of the symptoms first thought was BPD are now known to be caused by PTSD. I do fit way more squarly in the ICD's disgnosis for CPTSD. And it answers many of the sympthom gaps.

GAD is like that. A dignosis many get just to get inaurence to pay out meaning they have no idea what's wrong wifh you yet.
 
The only reason, I am posting this is because what is really PTDS? If they knew exactly what it is by now, they would have given a magic pill for it.
Well, that's a very distorted view of it. There is a lot that is known, and a lot that is still unknown. For example, there's a chemical that has been developed that seems to help fear extinction. It's been used in some human trials, to help people with certain kinds of phobias. The research will undoubtedly end up relating to PTSD.

In most sciences, things do not go from "we understand nothing" to "here's a magic pill!" in the blink of an eye. So, to make the argument you are making is pretty pointless.

On this site, there are many members, many experiences, many points of view. It is part of our mission to facilitate the sharing of information, experiences, and ideas.

There are reasons why it can be good for someone to know their diagnosis - even if that diagnosis is flawed.
People are not in boxes. We are more like water and can be very malleable creatures.
Yes. And science - hard science - is purposefully more rigid. There are less problems with the actual science out there, than there are with the various interpreters of that knowledge. Research can be 'spun' many different ways. Watch out for the spin, be open to the likelihood of change, keep up with the facts. So, when a doctor tells you that they can't diagnose you with CPTSD because it doesn't formally exist yet - you can still engage them in a conversation about when it will be formally recognized, what the current research is, what other co-morbid diagnoses you might carry instead.

unfortunately many people are not diagnosed on timely manner why is that?
I'm not sure in what context you ask this question. Many people...where? How do you define timely manner?

The real reason is likely to do with: mental health diagnoses largely depend on self-reporting, still. This makes them more inexact than anyone would like. And self-reporting is easily contaminated by pop-culture bullshit. It's a bad cycle. But I don't think the way to break the cycle is to have less information - it's to have more.

Never mind I know I tried to tell her about the sex stuff when I was a kid? Everyone just brushed past that like it was nothing, the main reason being I could barely mention it. But it was trauma and it was written all over me and anyone should have seen it. They didn't.
This sucks.

I wish there were far far fewer clinicians, so long as the ones we all were left with were more capable, more talented. More curious.
 
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Borderline disorder is something that starts around 1 to 4 years old
What? Do you have evidence for this claim? At this age the personality is only just beginning to form - it’s difficult to get a Borderline diagnosis under the age of 18 because of the way in which ordinary growth and development can present asBirderkine and/or mask Borderline symptoms. I’ve not seen any credible literature which suggests it forms in infancy so am very interested in your source for this.

As for whether this site might be useful for the OP, and asking about diagnosis- the site is called myPTSD not myBPD OR myBRAINISBROKEN. The collective knowledge of the group here is around PTSD and some of the strategies and ways of healing simply don’t work as well and are less helpful for folk who don’t have PTSD.
 
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