Went no contact with my father 2 days ago. Violated boundaries. Called saying he knew I had some problem. I said to.him no more. And I was not the only family member who had issues with him. Told him he did not follow any plan from therapists he saw in his past. He called again at a vulnerable busy high stress point in my and my husbsnds life as it is with all of us
He does not care about the effect of his behavior on others. He dogs others bullies etc..I havr a legal document ready for his death. My brothrr is thr golden child..i was the scapegoat..the document is denial of any inheirtance. I want no BS.from my brother. No projecting blaming gaslighting or saying I will give you any inheirtance but you MUST do xyz..the document must be filed within 9 months of father's death. My phone will not hold the charger. It got wet about 1 week ago. My new phone with new number arrived today. Any thing my father sends me in the mail will be returned. I live 1900 miles away from my father brother. I made huge mistake trying to have relationship with him again
. Here is why..i am totally to blame for all this. Internal cycle of guilt shame. I have been listening relearning from Jerry wise. Trauma narcissism codependency Bowen family systems. I will continue to..
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He does not care about the effect of his behavior on others. He dogs others bullies etc..I havr a legal document ready for his death. My brothrr is thr golden child..i was the scapegoat..the document is denial of any inheirtance. I want no BS.from my brother. No projecting blaming gaslighting or saying I will give you any inheirtance but you MUST do xyz..the document must be filed within 9 months of father's death. My phone will not hold the charger. It got wet about 1 week ago. My new phone with new number arrived today. Any thing my father sends me in the mail will be returned. I live 1900 miles away from my father brother. I made huge mistake trying to have relationship with him again
. Here is why..i am totally to blame for all this. Internal cycle of guilt shame. I have been listening relearning from Jerry wise. Trauma narcissism codependency Bowen family systems. I will continue to..
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