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Feeling victimized...

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Stills

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I recently moved into a 3 story apartment and last night my neighbour who lives above me, came up to me when I was outside...on my way to the store. I was literally going to get myself something sweet to eat because I felt like it. He started off with "I heard you crying the other night and I wanted to make sure that you're okay." So that's how we started talking. He then began to delve into his marriage problems, and proceeded to ask me if I needed money, if I've ever prostituted myself, if I have an escort friend willing to take care of him. He said that he could pay me to talk to my friend, and that he would pay me to give him massages. I literally didn't know what to do except engage in this conversation. It was midnight and it was dark outside. I'm feeling so uncomfortable right now. I can't believe the amount of times this happens to me, but the fact that my MARRIED neighbour who's a father of 8 would do this. It was just the last thing I expected. I'm so mad at myself that I didn't see the signs before. I just thought he was a nice man. I'm so upset and triggered right now. Why does this keep happening? I don't know what to do...I can't tell his wife. I feel shaken up.
 
I would record any conversation in the future and take it to the police. I'm not familiar with the laws there though.

Those type of people pick up on any vulnerabilities and that's how they choose their victims. They are pros at coming acrossed as 'nice guys'. This isn't your fault. I think his wife has the right to know, but it's not your responsibility to tell her. Doing so could place you in more danger.
 
I talked with my family and they're coming to help me because I'm scared and shook. They're going to confront him and then I'm not going to stay here anymore because who knows what the hell would happen to me or even his family after he's confronted. I'm so humiliated. I liked my area, and I felt safe up until now.
 
Oh I am sorry your neighbout has done this. How totally shitty. Glad your family is coming to be with you and confront him.

Best x
 
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