How Others Really See Me :)

[saffy]

HI Everyone

In this game, everyone Puts there own name and then a name of a person on this site that they have some communication with on this site. Each person must write out a phrase or words on each name that describes the individual whose name is displayed. The person must not comment about themselves. Others add their comments under your name and then comment on the other named person if they know them too and want to take part in the game.

The comments must be positive, cannot be about physical appearance, that easy on here lol, and must try not to repeat a comment. although it would be ok to do this if you do not know the person well or if you just agree with other comments. It will be good to get a good range of feedback. :)


The aim is for the person to be able to read positive comment and it helps build confidence by creating positve feeling in all them members. Whenever anyone is having a bad day you can read the post at anytime to remind them of all the positive things people wrote about you.

If a person chooses you and you do not want to take part in the game that is absolutely fine we respect that. But you can change your mind and join in at any time.

I hope some of you will take part buy will understand if not. :)

Ok I will start:

SAFFY(write comments below)


SHARKEY: ( write your comments about Sharkey below)

I am very proud of her. She is learning to be more assertive and it can be seen in how she expresses herself on here, well done Sharkey :)

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

I think it's a good idea if people also tag the person they are talking about @saffy.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

Do you mean private communication? Some of us don't engage in that and have turned off PM's. Or is this for anyone to comment about anyone because technically we all "talk" to each and every person here just by posting.

 

[rightkindofme]

@Muse often challenges me to think about things that make me uncomfortable. I consider this a highly positive trait even when it is difficult. :)

@nursenurse makes me feel like the world might be sane after all.

@Abstract has such a distinctly different view that I feel like I understand things better when I hear that side of things.

I'll go looking around for more. Those are the first three that popped into my head.

 

[saffy]

Hi everyone
You can tag, that is fine. you od not have to PM, It is more about just writting something nice about someone one here you value, or respect, or like or anything really. :)

The aim really is for people to read and see positve things about themselves which will help boost confidence and self esteem as well as just making us feel good when reading. :)

It also helps with group dynamics and communication. :)

At some point it is hoped that everyone will have some positive feedback for others on here.

best wishes
Saffy :)

 

[saffy]

@Abstract has such a distinctly different view that I feel like I understand things better when I hear that side of things.

Abstract: All makes time to give ask valid questions and really tries to underdstand your answers, a good quality to have. :)


Bratt17: She has been a supportive friend and always makes time to MP as well as all the other support she gives to people on here. I am proud to know her.

Saffy :)

 

[Deleted member 1860]

Hi everyone
You can tag, that is fine. you od not have to PM

You misunderstood my question.

 

[saffy]

HI SOlara
yes you are right I misread and got confused with another post. Yes you can do it about anyone you know really. :)

@rightkindofme
Is brave and shows signs of real strength :)

@Solara
shows courage and is mature in her thinking. :)

@Ayesha
Always comes up with good ideas :)

@sharkey


best wishes
saffy :)

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

@saffy Thank you! :) :D That does make me feel good.

 

[Changing4Best]

@Whitneys story is a great leader, very encouraging and friendly.

 

[saffy]

Its a pleasure @Ayesha :)

Feel free to post comments about anyone on here who would appreciate reading something positive about themselves. :)

@intothelight
Will always give support and will be honest with people when needed. A quality I appreciate.

@Sheila Barrera
Keeps her integrity and faith in what she believes in. a good strength to have. :)

best wishes
Saffy