I Would Like To Apologise

[anthony]

Hmmm. I was wondering where Sazza's offensive post was to create this thread! No sign...

 

[Phoenix_Rising]

I didn't see it either... And all I can say Sazza is from what I saw, and I didn't even really read much of it, doesn't look or sound to me like you (or Heather) were responsible for what went on there, it was just a heated topic that got too hot.

I don't like to get into that stuff much... Not just the politics. I have nothing but empathy and sadness for those who lost a loved one and all they went through.

But damned if I'll let Osama Bin Laden (or anyone else) dictate that September 11 be a day of pain and tragedy... That is my daughter's birthday, and as far as I am concerned, she was there first. It will never be anything but a day of joy in our house.

 

[kimba]

Sorry this happened Sazza. There are so many members and guests on here now that IMHO it may be nearly impossible to post a response that may not bother someone in some way. Take care.

 

[CraftyCath]

Wise words Kimba. There will always be someone who takes offense.

Love to you Sazza. x

 

[Sazza]

Thanks everyone, Anthony I replied to this post and misunderstood the timescale of anniversary, I made a mistake thought nothing of it. Logged on next morning had comment on my profile about a post mentioning my name. I think my misunderstanding the night before may have caused upset as not sure what context or purpose of my name in post meant.

Here is the post that was started after a slight misunderstanding which I was told about. I'm
Not sure what has happened I'm confused.

[DLMURL]https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/threads/i-just-realized-why-im-still-hurting-so-badly.21927/[/DLMURL]

 

[Phoenix_Rising]

Hmm... strange, because I am sure I read that post before, when it first came out, and you hadn't been mentioned in it... (Although it's possible I just never noticed the reference) But I guess you'd have to ask the poster for clarification.

It doesn't sound to me like you did anything wrong, though :)

 

[Nicolette]

Hmmm.... I see your point Sazza but am confused as to why Littlebear would write such a comment. I think clarification is required.

While I don't want to step on toes.... Sazza I have taken the liberty to seek clarification for you which I think may have been an option before feeling like you should apologize. If it was me I would have even considered sending a PC but since this is now public I have posted the following and trust you appreciate I am trying to help resolve the issue.

[DLMURL]https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/threads/i-just-realized-why-im-still-hurting-so-badly.21927/#post-304254[/DLMURL]

 

[Sazza]

Sorry Nicolette in hindsight I should of approached privately, I didn't think nor did even see the post till it was brought to my attention. I think my reply to the post of woof my anxiety is so bad must been cause upset. Anyway thank you maybe I haven't handled this well but I'm not perfect.

 

[Nicolette]

Sazza please do not say sorry for something you have nothing to be sorry about. I was just sharing with you an option available rather than having to publicly apologize for something you don't even understand doing.

Also, no one is expecting you to be perfect. I just think that before you humble yourself to the level of a public apology that the punishment equals the crime as in finding out whether it was warranted or someone else misinterpreting what you wrote. It can happen both ways. :rolleyes: Without facial expressions etc sometimes two people can read the same sentence and have a different interpretation.

I sincerely just wanted to clear it up for you and maybe I should have left well enough alone however at the same time I struggle trying to understand what it is you are apologizing for. I am trying to support you not make you feel bad or apologize further.

 

[Phoenix_Rising]

This is me, completely agreeing with Nicolette. :)

 

[Sazza]

Nicolette thank you for your assistance, I'm just highly stressed at the moment and maybe it's me being reactive.

Thanks phoenix !!!

 

[Nicolette]

I'm just highly stressed at the moment and maybe it's me being reactive.!

Maybe? :)