Relationship I'm Dating A Ptsd Woman..

[J.E.K]

Thanks everyone. Just so everyone knows nothing happens in front ofthe kids nor has it ever. My kids are 14,16&19. My daughter (16) did a report on PTSD at school but she doesn't have any clue Ann has it. Things happen when she is at home by herself or if I am out with friends and she doesn't know what I'm doin. You are all right she has to get help herself, I am a strong person for myself and I am in complete control of myself. When she gets rants going I stay calm and tell her "I'm sorry that you are feeling that way" I refuse to argue. She and I have stop talkin as of today. We talked earlier and I told her that I cared about her and wanted to be together but I can't sit and let these events continue to happen. I told her if she is the only one that can fix it, I told her I will never judge you, but I have to be the judge in my life for my family.. She wasn't happy and said "thanks for giving up on me like everyone else, have a nice life "..

Some of you that may have not read my first post.. Here is a recap summary:
I have had my kids for 12+ yrs I recently went thru a 14mo "investigation" with counselors, guardian ad Litem as well as children services my past was gone thru back since I got the kids. I went thru this because their mother wanted to get them back (after 12yrs) and/or more time with them. Ann is very very aggravated with the situation because i won and the mother actually lost a lot of her current visitation time. Ann asked about it a lot wanted to know (I felt cuz she cared) she asked me to text her when case was closed at court that day..... Huge mistake!!!! She got very aggravated with me saying "good for you glad you got to keep them, you were brought up in my court when I lost my son so you helped me lose him but hey you got yours huh?! Sooo happy for you" I said "I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to upse you, you asked so I was telling you" she said "whatever" and hung up on me.. Then blew up my phone with texts.. I have kept any further court info short and left alone not to upset her..

 

[J.E.K]

I plan to jus keep my distance and do what I need to for my kids, they only have so few years left before they will be old enough to Leave the nest lol... I can be alone, I have no problem with that..

 

[Queen Boudica]

I don't understand your situation then, your kids are 14, 16 and 19. Old enough to decide for themselves if they wish to see their mother. Was your first wife abusive too? This is real warning bells

 

[J.E.K]

Lizio
There is no age law anymore thy can not make their choice. No she chose a man over the kids and literally gave them to me.. She is currently in an abusive controlling marriage kids only see her 8 days out of the month..

 

[Justmehere]

Wow, what Ann said to you about your court experience was awful. Based on what you have shared so far, I think you made the right choice to keep your distance for now. I'm sorry you are going through all this. No matter how strong you are, it still sucks to be alone and to break it off with someone you clearly have cared for.

I hope she does use this time to work on herself.

Kudos to you for putting your kids first, even if they are older.

 

[cof]

I plan to jus keep my distance and do what I need to for my kids, they only have so few years left before...

Jesus christ, you are being a sucker. She's got you wrapped up in lies. Sorry for being harsh but seriously work out how and why you are attracted to this person - seek a good therapist fast.