Rejection & dating with PTSD & anxiety

[Jess1990]

Ok, I admit I didnt read all the post, only because I cant see that much, not because I don't care cua I do. i love the ppl here. Never met such a great group. Right now I d admit I had ad inhale of happy smoke, but have to share an important lesson, especially as Im not normal, not most of family and frieds

On the way out of Sams Club, despatetly wanted a porch furniture set. Dont need a truck often but my husband has fe friends that have truck which he was trying. I called my neighbor who had tried to have sex eith me (when husband was not living here) which was his defense at time. When we talked, he had a different story that I recall although. His wife mored away. Very sad. My husband knows about it by my admission, not beaning to put tension, but know it has. Anyway, he and I have tried to talk several yrs ago. He had a different motor and we disagreed and left it there. Todninght, I say the side of him that attcked me. It was a discussion abiut dems v reps.. How awful. Right. But as we began to agree about corruption on both sides, he became nut, rocking back and forth, blocking the doorway, etc. Happened right after husband took dogs to yard for like 20 minutes. At this point I actually thought my hub had called police. So strange. When I finally talked him down about out back doors and he was gone, Husband screamed at me. My thing was is that my neighbor is dissociating for sure, I saw it. I guess that is why I had to give him benefit of doubt, I know something was wrong as not like him. Sad part is my husband that could not stop yelling. This is an account of event, but would really like feedback

Sounds like many tough experiences. Life can be tough with many ups and down. A lot seems to be going in your life and your husband's, but I hope things better

 

[Lost in the Woods]

Be very careful about people you meet in church. I knew a woman who was swindled out of her life savings by a “financial advisor” she met in church. There is a word for those who use faith communities as an avenue to swindle the trusting and I can’t think of it right now. It is a sad fact that predators lurk in faith communities looking for the vunerable.

 

[Sideways]

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This is an account of event, but would really like feedback

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[Jess1990]

Be very careful about people you meet in church. I knew a woman who was swindled out of her life savings by a “financial advisor” she met in church. There is a word for those who use faith communities as an avenue to swindle the trusting and I can’t think of it right now. It is a sad fact that predators lurk in faith communities looking for the vunerable.

I agree that not everyone who says that are Christian are necessarily good people...some have bad intentions. Thank you for that reminder