Eleanor
Diamond Member
For me the distinction between FEAR and PANIC is really key to understanding how to deal with traumatized people. Because what soothes FEAR (retreating and getting small) can often make PANIC worse. I have a cousin who is a pediatric anesthesiologist who LOVED this distinction because it mapped so neatly onto the two kinds of patient responses to anesthesia. Some kids have FEAR which turns to RAGE and they FIGHT and it can take several adults to hold them down to get put under. Others can be "talked down" soothed... they are in PANIC and so when they feel connected again it abates...
SEEKING as an emotion makes intuitive sense to me, curiosity being a dominant theme in my life. PLAY I thought was bullshit at first - but really once you get it it really helps make sense of a lot of things - a sense of justice for one. And PLAY facilitates attachments to those not your family...
I had a point... but now its gone...
SEEKING as an emotion makes intuitive sense to me, curiosity being a dominant theme in my life. PLAY I thought was bullshit at first - but really once you get it it really helps make sense of a lot of things - a sense of justice for one. And PLAY facilitates attachments to those not your family...
I had a point... but now its gone...