Love

[JFSurvivor]

I can't relate to love outside of fear and violence. Anything having to do with love outside these parameters is confusing to me. What do I do? Does anyone else feel the same.

 

[J_trustno1]

Yup! I do :(. I get manipulated each time I try trusting someone when they use the word "love" . I get fooled into believing this word and then as a result, they turn out to be the wrong person. I don't think I will believe this word anymore because it has hurt me all the time :(.

For me the following words mean the same:

Love/ relationships/ family = domestic violence and abuse (emotional, physical, sexual and verbal).

 

[EveHarrington]

Work on healing.

Work on getting out of your parents house.

Then your feelings will change as those more vulnerable feelings will feel safe to emerge.