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Music That Makes You Want To Cry

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I get sad about a lot of things. But I don't cry about it. But certain songs or scenes in movies can make me cry a little or a lot. One for instance is "Smile Like you mean it" by the Killers. I think about a woman that I loved and it didn't work out and she would see me and smile but not really mean it. "Caroline Says" by Lou Reed. "Writing on the Wall" by Social Distortion, heck about 1/2 of their songs. "Last Night I Dreamt that Somebody Loves Me" I know I have people that love me, but I feel like no one loves me. I listen to a lot of music
 
Music and movies will make me cry sometimes too. I am not much on crying.. so to get that release... pbftttt , what ever it takes.... I am looking really closely right now, at my attachment disorder.... starting to understand a lot about believing no one 'loves' me...
 
gotta admit, there are passages in some songs that do bring a tear, more often because they are just simply amazing and the person that wrote/recorded them was reaching across the space between and got me -bam- right in the forehead. Sometimes its a lyric but more often for me, as a humbly skilled musician it is a beautiful movement or a passage that shows genius, no matter what the context of the song is.

Example: Brian Wilson never learned to surf, I don't even know a surfer personally and I know that the whole cars/surf/girls/fun fun fun thing was a gimic to sell the records but he gets me with some of the pure genius he showed on his earlier stuff, some of the later. To see him now, on a good night, is to see a man with bigger problems than me reach across the void and meet me more than halfway. There's a tear.

Another: Frank Zappa wrote disgusting, juvenile lyrics, but get him in the middle between the choruses working a guitar solo that borders on humanly impossible and he could make my hair stand up and go goose pimply.

For the more mainstream tear producers I have to go with Jackson Browne, far and away the most emotional connection with an audience I have ever seen or heard.
And with his best band/ensemble (David Lindly on guitar and lap steel for one), musically brilliant to boot.

I wish it was in the form of release for me, but it's not. More of a nice reminder that there are people in this world capable of making sounds that resonate deep within us. It is a strong sense of oneness with humanity when everyone in the room draws in that quick intake of air and feels the goosebumps at the same time, rare in this world. Trying to recreate that for myself with my own music or getting a little positive feedback from a listener gives me just a taste of that and it is very addictive.
 
Great thread. I haven't cried at all this year. Sometimes, it feels like I am going to cry, but nothing happens. A few months ago, I tried watching sad movies to induce the tears, thinking that would make me feel better. No tears came.

Still, here are some songs that would ordinarily do it, or that have in the past:

Naima by John Coltrane
Honey Come Home by The Head and the Heart
Romulus by Sufjan Stevens
Jim Cain by Bill Calahan

When I was younger, I would sometimes go for long drives just so I could be alone with music blasting, often crying. Ha.
 
Great Thread

Yesterday I started crying listening to Emile Sande 'Read All About It' - not my sort of music at all.

A song by Wildbirds & Peacedrums - Battle in Water and one with the words 'no one is just a hole, the inside is not you'.

A song by Svarvar something or another called 'emotional anorexia'.

A lot of songs by Fink.
 
Then it could be a lot of tracks on Ani Difranco's To the Teeth album or Revelling & Reckoning.

Right I'll shut up now. I love music - artistic expression.

Anyway, great thread:)
 
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