Ladyghosthunter
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Everyone knows about the situation with my oh so idiopathic, narcissistic stepson. Yeah, the one that went to prison for pedophilia and so on and so forth.
Well, it got worse before it got better.
1. His father, me, and his grandmother all bought him a car or gave him one. To make a long story short, he's destroyed all of them and recently LIED to his grandmother and all of us by saying he got his license and his insurance for the vehicle. WRONG! The new car was impounded and he's got no job or anything to get the car out nor pay the court costs to get the car out of impound, nor get his SR22 insurance or get his license. He's too lazy to get a job.
2. Finally, he left two jobs because he didn't like what they said or he was late for the jobs OR didn't show up for them. His rent is behind for a month and he doesn't give a shit whether rent is paid or not. My husband's mother called up today and said that her neighbor saw him at the races the other night. How he got from where I live to an hour away is unknown. He couldn't care about responsibility; he's too busy at the races to go look for a job or pay everyone back the money he owes them.
3. The phone call. Scott's mother called and I guess she wondered how Jarod was doing and how he got down to Beatrice. Scott FINALLY TOLD HER THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING because I knew she would ask. She told Scott under no uncertain circumstances get his car out of hock, help him financially or anything. She was PISSED off and frankly, after all is said and done, Scott's mother said she's done with him. No more. That's it.
Scott came to me and stated that his mother asked about Jarod and the truth came out after I got back from the eye doctors with a contact lens in one eyeball.( I just about crapped my pants when I found out about this.) I asked, "So what is going to happen to the money you took out to save him?" He plainly said, "He's on his own now. I guess all that money to shell him out is not going to be spent on him anymore."
I was on my knees thanking God for this. Finally, Scott and his enabling mother were going to stop enabling a "I don't give a shit" ungrateful child. At 24 years old, people are grown up and have children and so on and so forth. That kid has been at the forefront of my PTSD as of late and finally, it's about time they said stop. I said stop a long time ago but they wouldn't listen. Tonight, I have a huge load off my shoulders and glad that kid is going to have to suffer the consequences of his actions instead of being saved time and time again. Part of my PTSD went right out the window when I heard this but still am wary. I told Scott that the best thing for us to do is move to a better place putting a down and first on the move along with having movers do what is best for us.
But I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop but I don't think so this time....not this time.....
Heather
Well, it got worse before it got better.
1. His father, me, and his grandmother all bought him a car or gave him one. To make a long story short, he's destroyed all of them and recently LIED to his grandmother and all of us by saying he got his license and his insurance for the vehicle. WRONG! The new car was impounded and he's got no job or anything to get the car out nor pay the court costs to get the car out of impound, nor get his SR22 insurance or get his license. He's too lazy to get a job.
2. Finally, he left two jobs because he didn't like what they said or he was late for the jobs OR didn't show up for them. His rent is behind for a month and he doesn't give a shit whether rent is paid or not. My husband's mother called up today and said that her neighbor saw him at the races the other night. How he got from where I live to an hour away is unknown. He couldn't care about responsibility; he's too busy at the races to go look for a job or pay everyone back the money he owes them.
3. The phone call. Scott's mother called and I guess she wondered how Jarod was doing and how he got down to Beatrice. Scott FINALLY TOLD HER THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING because I knew she would ask. She told Scott under no uncertain circumstances get his car out of hock, help him financially or anything. She was PISSED off and frankly, after all is said and done, Scott's mother said she's done with him. No more. That's it.
Scott came to me and stated that his mother asked about Jarod and the truth came out after I got back from the eye doctors with a contact lens in one eyeball.( I just about crapped my pants when I found out about this.) I asked, "So what is going to happen to the money you took out to save him?" He plainly said, "He's on his own now. I guess all that money to shell him out is not going to be spent on him anymore."
I was on my knees thanking God for this. Finally, Scott and his enabling mother were going to stop enabling a "I don't give a shit" ungrateful child. At 24 years old, people are grown up and have children and so on and so forth. That kid has been at the forefront of my PTSD as of late and finally, it's about time they said stop. I said stop a long time ago but they wouldn't listen. Tonight, I have a huge load off my shoulders and glad that kid is going to have to suffer the consequences of his actions instead of being saved time and time again. Part of my PTSD went right out the window when I heard this but still am wary. I told Scott that the best thing for us to do is move to a better place putting a down and first on the move along with having movers do what is best for us.
But I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop but I don't think so this time....not this time.....
Heather
