Not sure how to take my t's statment.

[Fadeaway]

He said he doesn't have any theories about me yet. How would you take this? I have been seeing him for about 3 months now.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I would ask him what he means by that and learn what he is talking about.

 

[Fadeaway]

I plan too. I see him tomorrow I am just wondering if it would bother anyone else or or make them feel overly curious? I can't stop thinking about it and trying to guess what it meant. maybe I ma over reacting? I know he wouldn't have said it is he thought it would bother me, but it still seems strange.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I know he wouldn't have said it is he thought it would bother me, but it still seems strange.

It seems very odd to me and the sooner you get an answer that you can understand the better and if it is an even odder answer then I would trust my gut intincts.:hug::hug::hug:

 

[EveHarrington]

Have you been opening up to him?

 

[Sandstone]

My T says she doesn't fit me into any particular model, which I think comes to the same thing. I've been seeing her about months. WhenI'm feeling positive about it, I think it's better than trying to push me into a framework without knowing enough.

 

[Fadeaway]

@EveHarrington I have been opening up quite a bit.

@Sandstone that makes a lot of sense.

 

[EveHarrington]

Maybe he doesn’t want to be too quick to make a judgment?

 

[recoveringfromptsd]

I agree with @EveHarrington, also it takes time to build a relationship with a T. Give it time.

 

[UnicornSightings]

Maybe he’s really dumb. Lol. Weird he would say that but I guess it would depend on what was being said?
Mine said I was an enigma but then said why he thought that. Had he left it without explanation I would’ve wondered what he meant as well.

 

[recoveringfromptsd]

@Fadeaway I have established an open relationship with many who treat me, it's sort of a deal we have, I will be open about my state of mind, even if it leads to consequences, in return they won't rush to take away choices (like petitioning me) and will give me the opportunity to help myself. It's a double edge sword, as I still end up in hospital from S/I I just get to do it voluntarily. But when you get down to it, once your in the ER, being voluntary is not real that much voluntary, because you are not allowed to leave. But it does afford me some say in where I get sent to.

But lately I have began to distrust again, I confronted my therapist about it. She is going to work on it.

 

[Anarchy]

Hi Fadeaway
I'm very much with Rain on this.
We don't have a way to know what your T means without asking them to explain.

All we have at the moment is what they actually said, not what they meant to communicate.

What do the words mean to me? Probably about the same as Eve wrote. That you are not being forced to fit into a pigeonhole, that they are getting to know you as an individual.