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Operational Trauma

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anthony

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As a veteran, and any veteran who reads this, will no doubt understand. Trauma going into an operational zone (war, peacekeeping and even humanitarian) wearing a uniform, with or without a weapon, starts the moment you leave home.

Being military versus being a civilian in any zone has an immediate disadvantage, being your uniform identifies you as friendly or hostile, depending on who is looking at you through what scope of a rifle. Bar a few countries where they seem to just kill everyone and call it 'ethnic cleansing' or such, even though they're often killing their own people, a military uniform makes you a #1 target. Everyone wearing one knows it too.

You're trained to by hyper-vigilant for just such reason, because you have to spot them before they spot you. You have to kill them, or avoid them, before they kill you.

It makes me angry from a veterans perspective, when the news or such get photos of soldiers doing stupid shit in their downtime, petty stuff... posing with weapons, drinking or blowing off some steam, and make it out as though there is something wrong, that they should be setting some example and all sorts of rubbish. Unless you're under that stress for those duration, wearing a uniform and knowing you're a target, you shouldn't say a damn thing about how they let off steam to unwind and try and stay sane for their mates and team, so they're effective for the next mission, regardless what that is.

It doesn't matter whether you drive a truck, are infantry, special forces, whatever... when in a war zone and wearing a uniform, you're a constant target. Obviously soldiers chasing down the enemy are often in heightened danger... but everyone has the same stress level constantly, especially when something goes boom or crack thump around you.

Media correspondents often try to explain some of this, yet they can't fully understand it either, even though many become as screwed up as veterans can and do, as a result of combat... because they don't typically go in wearing a uniform or holding a rifle, thus they don't become a primary target even if with soldiers who are being shot at. When they finish reporting something, they have different avenues to relieve the stress as well, which soldiers do not... they're sleeping, doing their next guard duty, getting ready for the next days missions and objectives. Media correspondents and civilians in such war zones obviously experience something close, but they don't have that constant additional stress of being a known target unless they live within one of those countries where man, woman and child is a good kill for the militia.

People wonder why veterans are impacted so much compared to other types of trauma... well, some of the above is the reason why. Don't get me wrong, there are a few civilian cases of trauma types that would compare, if not be considered worse, such as childhood ongoing torture and trauma daily... basically a prisoner of someone who is supposed to care for you. Stealing children to drug them and put them in sex houses for years... and IF they survive, they may be shot, discarded or become an adult slave to someone instead.

My point is... war is really messed up, and watching war acts when you can't act due to rules of engagement, is even worse.
 
Some of what you said really hit a chord with me here. Have had a few conversations recently regarding.a youtube video parody with some soldiers "blowing off steam" A vet friend had sent it to me....it was hilarious btw lol...I showed it to N. who inturn sent to a few other vet buddies. All of the above got a kick ouy of it because they understand the need to act silly/goofy when having some downtime to counter the stress of going on missions. Actually it opened a dialog with N. and I about some of the crazy and or silly things he did when he had some down time (about the only things he's talked about with any specificity about his deployments and all I really expect which is fine). The issues arose around civilians who viewed the video. Some thought it was funny as it was I'm sure intended. Most thought it was disrespectful to "the uniform" and got up in arms over that their tax dollars were paying for "playtime". Most of the latter group know no one in the military or have ever had any experience with the need to break loose for any reason. It pretty much pisses me off >:( . I have a pretty strong imagination, but can't even begin to fully fathom the depths one must find in themselves to make it through a war. They deserve a chance to be human and silly or have fun some way!
 


This is the video I was referring to :)
I apologize if the song gets stuck in your head :p
 
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That's a crack up.

Yer... anyone who has donned a uniformed and served their country wouldn't think anything more of something like this that for what it is... soldiers trying to have a little fun to keep it mentally together. Your options are limited... and when on operations you don't have a big movie cinema to choose all the latest movies, shopping centres to go browsing at, cafes for coffee with friends, jump in your car to see your family or friends, and so forth.

You have what you have to work with in location, and you can't be 'always on' when on operations, you have to have moments of just trying to forget your surroundings every now and then and relieve the stress on your brain. All armies have some fun times when available. You see a creek and haven't showered in a couple of weeks, you put out sentries whilst others swim and wash, then swap over... when in camp and allowed to relax whilst others are watching the walls... you make it count.

Civilians are shit to deal with from a soldiers view when it comes to negativity... especially when they've never left the comfort of their surroundings and placed in a hostile location 24/7. I'm not saying soldiers don't cross the lines at times, because they do... but most things done are just fun and blowing off steam, nothing more than that. When they get negative comments from twits with no idea of the pressures and stressors upon you serving in combat, most take it with a grain of salt or get even more fired up to top it and piss them off just because it amuses them, thus helps destress them compared to what they're dealing with.

Can't stand whiners with soldiers blowing off steam.
 
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