Relationship Ptsd Relationship

[Jane1234]

Hello,
I am new to this site and have never seeked help on a site before. I am recently married to a wonderful man a combat vet with PTSD. I'm looking for some guidance as I'm not sure this is the right place but I sure hope so.
My husband is the kindest man I will ever know the love of my life forever.
I struggle because no matter what I do
he doesn't feel my love. He's decided to move his things out after 2 months of marriage. Some struggles I have.
-If I don't kiss him before going into the bathroom he sees it as our relationship changing.
- if I sleep away from him at night because I'm hot he says I don't want to be near him.
-if I don't txt him during my work day he sees it as me pulling away instead as busy at work
-I understand somewhat bit feel as though I am always on guard of my actions so I don't make things worse.
- he says he has a sixth sense and he feels I've changed which I haven't I truly love him with all my heart.
I'm with him all the time I don't have any outside activities as he doesn't like to be alone and that would make him feel left out.
It's my time to seek help. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

 

[kona355]

@Jane1234

Reading through the treads on this site will help you understand what you're facing (beyond the obvious).

I used to be like what you described your husband doing and his reactions. Having said that, I know from experience he is the only one who can decide whether to change his reactions to you and the circumstances you're in.

There are good books concerning the need for boundaries. These will help you to cope. I hope you'll take encouragement from all the wonderful people on this site.

 

[Jane1234]

Thank you so much. I'm hoping to learn so I can understand more.