Dom Violence Realizing Your Worth

[Lady of Longbourn]

I know my self worth can be and used to be so terrible. I used to think I was totally stupid and worthless. This term of college with my all A's has proved me totally wrong.

Everyone is worth something. If you had this problem, how do you work through it?

 

[Candleflames]

Been thinking about this today. I'm still struggling with this one.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

I am think about this too and I think it's something you learn. Like learning to be kind to yourself. Realizing your worth when you have thoughts about hating yourself too...hard battle.

 

[silkleaves]

This is something I struggle with, and have yet to be able to realize. On "paper" I am a decent person with a lot to offer, Ive had friends and family describe me in a really good light. Its nice to hear, but in reality...well, my reality, that would all go out the window if they really got to know me.

I've put on an act for so long now, even I dont know me, and what I do know...Im not really all too fond of, to put it lightly. I am working very hard on this...When I catch myself ruminating I try to shift my focus, and try not to beat myself up so much. It's definitely a struggle though.

 

[SeanCharles]

This is difficult! I know that I have my worth. As difficult as life is has been and can continue to throw everything at me either a little a time or even huge, gigantic heaps too I know that l am worth something. In ways, on my journey through this life that I've been given sometimes I have to take stock of this.

Right now, I have feel worthy to do anything I need to do to build my worth. Sometimes I do lose sight of my worth. Sometimes, I feel that I run low on worth and when that happens things take a radical dive. Other times I have to fight to keep my worth.

I am definitely going to have to examine this more deeply.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I know my self worth can be and used to be so terrible. I used to think I was totally stupid and worthless...

I have always thought that way too, from childhood on with an oppressive father, cold fish of an ex, and then a stalker. All of them attempted to do that to me, but strangely because all of these things happened for the first time in my life I learned how much worth I really had. It allowed me to evaluate myself and to find out that there were a lot of capabilities that I was not even aware of, strange.