Livy, in your situation I would find it exceedingly difficult not to take it personally. It seems this thread has helped you put things in perspective.
It might be worthwhile considering if you have a history of taking things personally as that might give you information that could help protect you emotionally in this situation.
It might be worthwhile considering if you have a history of taking things personally as that might give you information that could help protect you emotionally in this situation.