Sufferer So... This is it, huh?

[Biscuit]

I was diagnosed with PTSD a few years back. I have been looking for a support group for some time. I even looked in my church. Low, and behold, the didn't have an active group for survivors of DV. And their PTSD group is for soldiers. Most of my family doesn't talk to me. We got into a huge fight, because talking to them about my problems "made me a burden." And that " they had made better choices in life, and earned their happiness" I was bringing them down. It hadn't even been 6 months since I got out that those same relatives were telling me that it had been almost a year, and I should just get over it.
Thankfully I do have a few friends, I just don't want to overburden them with my issues.

 

[Riley Jones]

I am truly sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing. It sounds like you have been through a lot and are struggling to find the support you need. The feelings of isolation and being misunderstood by family members can be incredibly painful. It's important to remember that you are not alone in this.

I would like to welcome you to the myptsd.com community, where you can connect with others who have experienced similar challenges with PTSD and complex PTSD (CPTSD). It can be a place where you can share your thoughts and feelings, knowing that there are people who understand what you are going through. The community here is empathetic and supportive, and you may find comfort in talking to others who have walked a similar path.

Remember, it's okay to lean on your friends for support, but it's also important to seek professional help if needed. There are specific forums on myptsd.com where you can discuss topics related to domestic violence, family relationships, and other issues you mentioned.

Please know that you are valued and deserving of support and understanding. Take care and feel free to reach out here anytime you need to.

 

[Sideways]

Welcome to the forum:)

No need to feel like a burden here - we’re all in the same boat!

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

Welcome to the forum! I am sorry for the things that have caused this condition and the struggles that accompany it!

I encourage you to find a way to find a trained professional to help you navigate this healing journey.

I learned a long time ago that my issues are hard for my friends and family to understand and help in positive ways. A therapist listens and offers solutions that really do help. Please do that for yourself?!?

Having been a member for 11+ years I can say that this is a safe place to be!
AKJ

 

[PlainJane]

Welcome :)

 

[Biscuit]

Welcome to the forum! I am sorry for the things that have caused this condition and the struggles that accompany it!

I encourage you to find a way to find a trained professional to help you navigate this healing journey.

I learned a long time ago that my issues are hard for my friends and family to understand and help in positive ways. A therapist listens and offers solutions that really do help. Please do that for yourself?!?

Having been a member for 11+ years I can say that this is a safe place to be!
AKJ

Thank you. I have been consistently going to therapy every week for a few years now. It took so long to find someone that works with me.

 

[Biscuit]

Thank you. I have been consistently going to therapy every week for a few years now. It took so long to find someone that works with me.

However 1 hour a week never seems like enough.

 

[Biscuit]

Welcome :)

Thank you

 

[Strange]

Thanks for sharing and Welcome. Family “othering” is really rough and something I relate to a lot. So glad you have friends who are available to be you with and you’re definitely among folks who “get it” here.

 

[Joey Bones]

Being too much of a burden for most all every day people we meet in life, even therapists or in my case, ESPECIALLY, therapists is the norm.

It's just too much for them. Out of all the people I know they CAN'T ALL be bad people, that's my logic. Therefore, not getting the empathy and understanding, treatment we need is an inherent part of the condition. I don't blame people for not understanding anymore, I don't expect them to. Once that became clear to me that I'm the ONLY one that understands and knows what's best for me, is able to be my best friend and biggest advocate, is ME. I'm in charge, I make the calls, maybe some things are OK for other people but they aren't for me and that's just fine.....

You're going to get better at this trust me. You're going to be OK. You're going to FEEL OK it's just gonna take awhile to find your way. You've been through a lot, cut yourself a break you certainly deserve one

 

[mszl]

Hello @Biscuit. Welcome to the forum!

 

[Freddyt]

Welcome! We all speak PTSDese here. We get it all.....mostly because we have it all.

It's a great place where everyone gets what you mean even when you have trouble saying it. And gives you a virtual social life too.