General Wanting To Find Some Friends For Support And Friendship!

[Eleanor]

What PW said.:tup::tup::tup:

 

[sherri ward]

Well I will say it again! I am thrilled to have you all! I came home from work again to the yelling and name calling and belittling talk. I am so sick of all this. I don't know whether to be angry, feel sorry for him or cry.

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[Eleanor]

Sherri - a suggestion: do a search on "setting boundaries" and see what comes up... I think that's what you need to work on....here, and others explain it much much better than I do...

 

[sherri ward]

Thanks, I will do that. We are starting off the day with a lapse in memory, he thinks it's before the accident. Doesn't remember anything. I hate when this happens, it only make me have to relive it all over again. Hoping it gets better as the day goes on.

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[Eleanor]

Oh, Sherri....:cry::( Hugs.....

 

[Tinyflame]

Yes- I have been on both ends, it's pretty difficult to feel happy when someone is raging and saying they're going to chop your head off. :(
Please don't feel badly PW- of course. Talk about sacrifice and love. I hope you end up with so much more than what you've given/ are giving.

But YES- you guys are (All) AMAZING. :inlove::inlove::inlove:
(And Thank You Eleanor, as always, xoxox. :inlove:)

 

[sherri ward]

Oh, Sherri....:cry::( Hugs.....

Thanks Eleanor! Need them!

 

[Tinyflame]

More hugs Sherri, did not see 'Page 2'. :(
xoxox

 

[sherri ward]

More hugs Sherri, did not see 'Page 2'. :(
xoxox

Thanks Junebug. Today was much better though ladies! He has no recolection of the entire week. It's like when he woke up this morning he was back to his "normal" self. The last thing he remembers is Monday. SMDH... It sucks when this happens, how am I supposed to be angry with him if he doesnt even remember it???

 

[Tinyflame]

Oh Dear dear Sherri, still send more hugs. I realize I have no idea what you are going through, but also work in health care, care for those with TBI, dementia, etc, and I live with someone who gets blackouts. Terribly heart breaking, stressful and difficult.

It's also been my experience that with TBI there are similarities with ptsd, but the rage control, anxiety and even physical issues (seizures, etc) are somewhat different.

Here's to a much better day!
Love, hugs, support, peace ((((((Sherri)))))).

 

[Eleanor]

Hi Sherri - my H often "blanks" on much of what happened when he was having an episode. What to do with the residual anger is something I struggle with too. No point in being angry at him when he is not the "one" who said all that stuff. And yet, there I sit, pissed off. So Roaring in the garage or the car, kicking the old Mustang hood (steel, not recommended) or???

I just want to be able to let it be past and deal with now...

 

[sherri ward]

Eleanor, I am totally there with ya! I am hoping that thru this support forum I will be able to find the strength to let a lot of things go. I feel like there is so much that he does that he deserves to be held accountable for but if he doesn't even remember it what's the point. But like you said... It is hard to "let it go", we are the ones who remember and have to deal with it. Over and over and over.