General Well...

[MurphyJB]

I'd just like to thank everyone for all their words of wisdom since I've been here.
I broke up with D today. It just had to be done.
I think I might still continue to write in my diary until I sort everything out in my head...but I just wanted to let you all know how much I appreciate you.

 

[amethist]

So sorry it came to this Murphy.

Stay as long as you need to, unfortunately this is how it goes sometimes, but what you have posted will help others in the future. In more ways than you can imagine just now.

Start taking good care of YOU now, do something nice for yourself everyday, no matter how small.

Amethist

 

[Nicolette]

I am sorry for your loss Murphy and gather it would not have been an easy decision to make.

Take time to reflect, talk and get all the confusion out of your head - writing is a good tool as then you can go back and read your thoughts, perhaps un-jumbling them as part of the process.

Remember you have now stepped onto a new roller coaster where you will have ups and downs. We are here if you need someone to talk to or just listen. Allow yourself the time to grieve and heal. And please remember that you did nothing wrong - sometimes the illness consumes relationships which hurts all involved.

 

[NikkiNikki]

((hugs)) sounds like you did the right thing hun. I think its a good idea to keep coming here and writing in your diary. I started one and its helping me to sort my feelings out.

 

[track108]

Sorry to hear that murph. Maybe someday after D has helped himself some it could work out. Im in the same boat as he is though. Its so much easier to get angry than deal with the stuff like an adult. I dont blame my ex's for leaving me, I forced them into it. They didnt make those decisions lightly I dont believe you did either. Life sucks sometimes.
Charles