What are your pet peeves ?

[Friday]

And not knowing what those actually mean?

Yep.

Equally, though, WTF do they mean??? The vagueness pisses me off. If someone is a self centered asshole? Call them that. If they’re super confident & charming? That. (It’s amazing how many people loathe anyone charismatic, no matter what kind of person they are). Dangerous and violent? Manipulative drama queen? Petty? Creepy? Awkward? Shy? Loud? Use your words, people! :banghead: Say what you actually mean! ((Oh but I don’t juuuuuuuuudge.))
:facepalm: :wtf: :banghead:

 

[Gs172003]

Yep.

Equally, though, WTF do they mean??? The vagueness pisses me off. If someone is a self centered as...

Lol! EXACTLY!

 

[8888]

Loud noises, homophobia, people staring at me.

 

[Deleted member 29920]

Liars, backstabbers

Phony people who pretend to be good people but are not what they seem

Yes, this ^ exactly .. want to like this a billion times

 

[ladee]

People who are condescending, and passive aggressive and gas lighting, all at the same time.... can you say... OBVIOUS....and when you finally trust your gut, THEY are the ones that get hurt??? Deep sigh of disgust...

 

[Deleted member 29920]

When other people can't see through phony people.. so I have to show them! No.. wait.. this is something to do with my past.. shit!

 

[ninja]

I'll tell you
narrow-mindedness
defensiveness
self-absorbedness
denial
comparisons which have the result of making one person feel better and another feeling worse, even if the emphasis is actually just on that person wanting to feel competent and secure. If it happens at the expense of devaluing another person's worth I'm annoyed
jealousy
entitlement
people who are unwilling to take responsibility and do their own work

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

Drivers who ride my bumper, especially when they can very easily pass me in a passing zone, and I'm already going 5 miles over the speed limit. If I weren't so allergic to pain and inconvenience, I'd slam on my brakes so you could get an even closer look, you asshole. f*cking safety hazards. May all beings who have to cross their paths within a day make it safely.

 

[Let It Be]

I drove some distance today to get a meal from this place so I could bring it home to eat. I have been there before and enjoyed it. I waited some time for it to be ready and then when she rang up what I owed, I questioned the amount.

It seems that I was being charged for the go-box! So I took my go-box of food and told myself that I won't be going back there!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Two faced people who back stab privately and pretend to care about the person they secretly gossip about.

 

[Deleted member 541]

When driving and the car in front of you doesn’t use their directional... I guess they didn’t make them for that model car!!!

When a car coming the opposite direction decides to take their half of the road out of the MIDDLE of the road!!!

Had a bad day with driving today!!!

 

[DharmaGirl]

I guess it's almost the same as @Friday was saying, but it drives me nuts when people diagnose other people based on their belief system and the DSM. You can't diagnose with the DSM, unless you are billing insurance or you have been trained for many years on the nuances of the various diseases. It just makes me dismiss what they have to say, since they are using a diagnosis as name calling, or what their belief of what it is actually is, and not what it really is. It has become normal to throw around diagnoses, as if they are true, and they may well be, but they may not. Since very few people care about dismissing a person by using a diagnosis, I guess I will have to learn to let it go, but it seems so destructive to label someone when you have no training. Especially when we all have mental illnesses, and we wouldn't want someone to say we had borderline when we have PTSD, or bipolar, or any other disorder someone would want to call you.