Someone IRL. I'm a feminist and I was talking with a classmate today, and she simply for the life of her couldn't get why I would do such a thing. Basically, if you're not a woman who has been through violence, you are not concerned so you should try to better the society in that way. If you're a woman who has been through violence, well then you should get over it. If only that was an isolated opinion, but it's totally not.
Sorry, I meant in the previous post "you are not concerned so you should not try to better the society"