What Made You Angry Today?

[Abstract]

When I got home from work she was sitting there all dressed to go and had been for 3 hours

The "now I'm here now I'm not" deal was really difficult to deal with.

But I sure did want a father growing up. Someone to protect me. To bad he never did.

I am so very sorry. It is just heartbreaking. Children need their fathers and they need security.

Discarded, I guess all you can do is keep telling her how much you love her and get her to do anything you can think of to boost her confidence. And keep telling her that this is not about her and her father is having a difficult time. And hope a tiny bit of that sinks in.

 

[safenow]

keep telling her that this is not about her and her father is having a difficult time.

That is wise advice. I know for my father, when mother died I believe he had a nervous breakdown and then turned to alcohol. That is the only reason I was able to forgive him. But my sister will have to forgive him on the other side of the vale, and that is between her, him and God.

 

[Abstract]

Children blame everything on themselves don't they Safenow. They don't understand that others actions can be because of them and not anything to do with the child. I am glad you found a way to forgive him. Not for him but for you.

 

[Let It Be]

I started going to see this lady to get my hair cut. She worked at this beauty shop, only 2 blocks, from my home, so I could walk there.

I get there, on time, and she is working on the lady who owns the shop, her nails. She told me to sit and wait for her. She finally, I thought, was ready to cut my hair, and starts making personal phone calls for her husband, would make appointments for him, and then calls him, etc. She is getting out her scissors with one hand, as she is on her cell phone with the other.

She then tells me that she would no longer be at this location as she was opening her own shop at her husband's business. She said that they had remodeled it, so she could work there. He works on cars.

I don't think I will be going back to her for what it costs, and now I wait for my hair to grow out. Here I even showed up with my hair already washed!

 

[goingonhope]

I'm aggravated with how physically crappy and uncomfortable I feel today and with the pain throughout my lower head/upper neck and with this strange new additional discomfort and observation in the base of my skull.

So aggravated with this pain, :mad: I'm actually feeling rather angry and therefore grumpy.

 

[KP the nut]

The devastation that dementia causes to a family. Not mine thank goodness but a work colleague. All I could do for her was give her a cup of coffee, a hug and listen.

 

[safenow]

I'm angry that just about everything I do requires two hands to do it. I thought since it was my left arm that was not working it would be easier, but I was wrong. When I over do, my right arm gets weak as well. Sigh. But my goodness, I haven't had to do nothing since I was having to stay in bed. I hate this. I can't even draw. Which upsets me no end.

I think it was easier when just my legs didn't work. Now my legs are beginning to work, howbeit with a lot of pain, but they are working. I wish both ends worked at the same time. Top and bottom. LOL

 

[Britt.f7]

I wish both ends worked at the same time

When my body isn't cooperating I always say it's because they don't play well with each other. I hate it when it doesn't play well.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I am angry and helpless and powerless. I called member services and medicare and senior advantage do not provide assisted living services to people with dementia.

I will have to look elsewhere and pay out of pocket.

I will not be defeated by this. I will rise above it and manage somehow. I will find a way.

 

[Tanishq]

Angry with dad. When I was getting ready to go college, why he needed to push me even more. :mad:

 

[Britt.f7]

Angry that I woke up feeling dread again for the day.

 

[amethist]

Today I am angry at finding out that the therapy for hubby via the National Health Service, {NHS}, will possibly a long time coming still.

It seems there are only 2 PTSD therapist in our area, and both are fully booked up.

Good job we accepted to offer of alternative therapy for hubby, which we will be going to next week.