My Husband Just Told Me He's Leaving Me

[Fadeaway]

@Mal Content I don't think anyone is concerned about you missing them right now. I think everyone pretty much accepts the fact you are in a bad place right now and that trying to focus on much of anything is going to be a near impossible task.

For the record, in light of what has just happened, I want you to give yourself permission to be totally selfish and not worry about anyone else but yourself for the next few days. Do something you really want to do or buy yourself something you really want to buy.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

@Mal Content I don't think anyone is concerned about you missing them right now. I...

(((hug))) fade

 

[Thizette]

I don't understand why he would do this to me now. I.Just.Don't.Understand.

((hug)) Please take care of yourself during this trying time and remember you have support here.

 

[ladee]

Hope you are taking care of yourself @Mal Content, so many of here holding you up.... with love and prayers.

 

[corvidae]

thinking of you and sending gentle care your way.

 

[Zanshin]

Oh, Mal Content... I'm so sorry to hear this. Please be gentle with yourself, we're here to talk to.

 

[Powder]

Not strong enough maybe. Not wise enough to realize that you won't find anyone who hasn't endured something and doesn't have some kind of a past to reckon with. Best to stay with the person who is worth it to work things out.

My hope is that he sorts through his thoughts and feelings and sees that you are a wonderful person worth it all.

 

[Chimera]

Very sorry to hear this Mal, sending strength and calm your way :hug:

 

[UnKnown-Self]

I don't understand why he would do this to me now. I.Just.Don't.Understand.

I am very sorry ((((Mal))))
Sometimes there are no words that can help the pain. But just sit beside you as you process. Maybe offer a LifeSaver candy. I'll even let you have the red one.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

And to add insult to injury, he told our 14-year-old son. He saw no reason to involve me in the conversation. f*cking prick.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

I am very sorry ((((Mal))))
Sometimes there are no words that can help the pain. But just s...

Alice, I may need the red *and* the green... :(

 

[Chimera]

Oh Mal, grrrr! that is so seriously messed up. (In my mind I am thinking of much worse names than pri€k)
I hope both and your son are going to be ok..