I have known mine for 2 years. The last convo I had w/him...I asked him a question about his younger brother. That is all...nothing else! I just asked if his younger brother since he is 24 years old would want a gf how would he handle that if he still lives at home w/his parents. He thought it was inappropriate of me asking him that...n I think I might have pressed it only cause he told me stories about how shy his brother is and how he tried helping him get a girl...just that one question I have been shut out of his life.
At first I was angry, that why do I need to walk on eggshells for him, when he doesn't have a filter in his mouth and he can say whatever he wants about me and my family and he can give his opinion on matters and I asked him one question. I am now blacklisted. He hasn't return my calls, texts since last Sunday. It's like he is punishing me...he has my father's ring. I have asked back for it since we are done. I sent him texts repeatedly and left him voicemail...I have no idea what to do. If he wants out, than tell me and give me the my dead dad's ring and I will move on w/my life. Not a word. Not a single word. So I called his father, left him a vm, send him a text asking him to please speak to his son and return my dad's ring. That was 4 days after dead silence. He called him me upset that I reached out to his dad. I told him well I did call him, text him if he blocked me I understand if he is done, return what is mine and I will leave. He said we are done since I contacted his family and told them our business. I understand he is upset and I will leave...again he hangs up and now again he has me blocked...not a word. I have been sending him message after 3 days of dead silence, to please return what is mine so I can move forward w/my life. He knows why I gave him the ring, he knows under what speculation that since we were together...I wanted him to have what means everything to me. He knew if we ended things to return the ring. If he ended it let me know and let me know when will he be returning the ring. Why won't he let me know? He chose to shut me out, he chose to not return my calls or text and since he is done, return what is mine so we can both move on...and not leave me in a limbo. I messed up...yes I understand by calling his parents but he left me no choice. Please someone help me w/this. He has told me many, many times how he will destroy the one thing I had of my dad's. He told me many times how he would throw it away in a river somewhere, how he would take a sledge hammer and destroy it. What do I do? It's been 4 days since he told me its over but not a word on my dad's ring. Please help!
At first I was angry, that why do I need to walk on eggshells for him, when he doesn't have a filter in his mouth and he can say whatever he wants about me and my family and he can give his opinion on matters and I asked him one question. I am now blacklisted. He hasn't return my calls, texts since last Sunday. It's like he is punishing me...he has my father's ring. I have asked back for it since we are done. I sent him texts repeatedly and left him voicemail...I have no idea what to do. If he wants out, than tell me and give me the my dead dad's ring and I will move on w/my life. Not a word. Not a single word. So I called his father, left him a vm, send him a text asking him to please speak to his son and return my dad's ring. That was 4 days after dead silence. He called him me upset that I reached out to his dad. I told him well I did call him, text him if he blocked me I understand if he is done, return what is mine and I will leave. He said we are done since I contacted his family and told them our business. I understand he is upset and I will leave...again he hangs up and now again he has me blocked...not a word. I have been sending him message after 3 days of dead silence, to please return what is mine so I can move forward w/my life. He knows why I gave him the ring, he knows under what speculation that since we were together...I wanted him to have what means everything to me. He knew if we ended things to return the ring. If he ended it let me know and let me know when will he be returning the ring. Why won't he let me know? He chose to shut me out, he chose to not return my calls or text and since he is done, return what is mine so we can both move on...and not leave me in a limbo. I messed up...yes I understand by calling his parents but he left me no choice. Please someone help me w/this. He has told me many, many times how he will destroy the one thing I had of my dad's. He told me many times how he would throw it away in a river somewhere, how he would take a sledge hammer and destroy it. What do I do? It's been 4 days since he told me its over but not a word on my dad's ring. Please help!
