Sexual Assault "the World Desperatel Needs Angry Females"

[Deleted member 24866]

I saw this quote the other day, I have been plagued with stalkers, liars, exploiters, and men wanting cheap whores vs. the fantasy they present and it is making me bitter. A quote stolen from a pimp I once heard "promise them heaven lead them to hell" - We live in a world where over 27,000,000 are enslaved many of which are sexual servants including women, children including boys to serve mens sexual appetite and the internet glorifying the exploit and abuse of women. I just feel this needs its space. Generally men are alright till they fabricate stories of sleeping with me, or stalk, harass.. etc. BUT.. there is a place I feel and I think we do need a space set aside to acknowledge it. Curious if the idea of support focus groups would be something the general population is interested in. Please share your thoughts. I feel this would be a good place to discuss the games they play and the things we hate about them. I am tired of harassment in the workplace and men thinking it is alright to ever lay their hands on me especially after I warn them holding my job and life security in balance and laughing it off.

 

[Silver.]

There are support groups for this kind of thing. I can see how this would bother a person with PTSD, but it would bother anyone, so I guess I don't really see how this is PTSD related nor PTSD relationships related? I do sympathize with anyone going through this, but just not sure this is a good platform as I see this opening up a door to a whole bunch of negativity. (of course that is just my thoughts on this)

 

[EveHarrington]

@Silver.

There are members who constantly post non-PTSD related stuff on the other symptoms/disorders board so as far as I can tell, a topic doesn't have to directly be related to PTSD to be posted here in the PTSD sections of the site. I think you just need to be looking for input from other sufferers.

 

[Deleted member 24866]

It seems in-escapable, my PTSD is from being gang raped and left for dead, then escaping human traffickers as a run away teen. It is constantly triggered by a mysoginistic society.. where rapes are not prosecuted (granted it is improving), and constant stalking and harassment. I have to put on a strong face day to day- and live under a security system due to these creeps. Its a sick pervasive perverse attitude. I know it is not all males.. but now how can I trust any.. Men know other men are crap also, just like I also am not perfect nor females but as a collective we could change the future for our daughters if we were not -afraid of ourselves and REALITY.

 

[Deleted member 24866]

I no longer believe others are capable of love.. it has become a weakness.. leaving me disillusioned with life itself- now a duty.. simply to try to provide for my kids and for a better future. I accept it. I also do not understand why suppression of anger if "good" - seems simple systemic oppression of the underprivileged. Cancer, depression, and aiding ailment and malady of any sort. I have been treating my PTSD with great success and made tremendous improvements deviating from the systemic oppression. But maybe this site is not about getting better. Or serving all.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Please share your thoughts. I feel this would be a good place to discuss the games they play and the things we hate about them.

"Them" being men I assume?

One of my two main abuser, and likely the worse of the two, was my mother...a female.

I am terrified of females. I can be in a room full of men and be scared but not freak. Thats not true for females.

We live in a world where over 27,000,000 are enslaved many of which are sexual servants including women, children including boys to serve mens sexual appetite and the internet glorifying the exploit and abuse of women.

Indeed but men arent always the only ones behind that. I was trafficked as a child by my step father and mom and the clients were mostly men but not all were.

This world has enough anger. Should more to stand up for these wrongs, absoultely but not much gets done with anger.

But i do agree that more need to be aware and then stand up against this!

 

[Deleted member 24866]

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This suggests if I were a male my points would be valid in societal eyes. Perhaps its time for an "alias".. "pen name"

 

[Deleted member 24866]

I have to disagree. I have been advocating under a page and at times extremely angry. It has changed many things. People are hearing..not dismissing me. Granted in an actual public presentation I do not think it would be as effective. But I just took care of a stalker in a unique fashion.. I basically wiped my ass with that jerk.. well, he did by claiming he slept with me publically.. but I did not back down, and he deserved his asinine ways and the humiliation he got. I feel great about that. I was sadly raised by random men- I fight and behave more like a man in some respects due to that. But confusion arises because I am a petite female who they think will be an easy victim. I also went to school for investigations.. I am grateful for some insights it has given. Anger can be healthy people.. anger can change the world.. denying it things will remain as suppressed as they have been since the dawn of time.

 

[Deleted member 24866]

The only people who run in fear have no facts to stand on. Afraid of a girl and an honest debate. I do struggle accepting at points how crappy this world is.. I know there are women abusers also.. God people. argh

 

[Deleted member 24866]

my anger is very controlled- has harmed no one ..precision. But perhaps frightening to some. It has enlightened a few. I cherish it.

 

[NoWhereKnowWhere]

I gues I get what your saying to a certain degree. I would say I'm a feminist and I know I know "not all men" yes absolutely. My SO is a wonderful person and he is constantly outraged at how some men behave. And it's absolutely in the interest of males that we as a society sort some of this shit out. It's not healthy that men are told they must be strong and not show "womanly" emotions.

I can see where your coming from. I can't even count the amount of times I've been triggerd by a guy making me feel scared or boxed in. I feel I can't get mad and bluntly say f*ck off! As I could be putting myself in danger. so I smile and let him scare the living shit out of me. That's not even to say that's that particular guys fault, if we as a society were better educated then maybe this sort of thing wouldn't happen.

I get what your saying about wanting more angry females and I read that study you posted a while ago. I don't feel like I can be angry and be taken seriously. Cause I must have my period of something. It doesn't help that these things are used as insults towards men thus seen as undesirables and week. 'You throw like a girl, do you have your period,"

 

[lostforgottensoul]

I have to disagree

Well, this,

my anger is very controlled- has harmed no one ..precision.

I agree should be present to effectively stand up for what you believe in, be angry at the opposing thing (whatever you are standing up against) and be controled and precise. Thats how, say, peaceful protest is and that i agree with.

Maybe anger is missplaced or maybe just need clarifying? I dont know as just in general, needing more angry women scares me lol.