Betrayed By The Closest One Now Scared Of All

[Betrayed]

I was hurt betrayed and abandoned by wife and it is making my problems so much worse it is so hard to do even simple things even sleep is beyond my reach a lot.

 

[Fadeaway]

I am so sorry that she hurt you. :hug: if you accept. Self care is especially important right now and I think you will find this site very supportive.

 

[Betrayed]

I am so sorry that she hurt you. :hug: if you accept. Self care is especially important right now and...

I hope so things are very hard for me right now

 

[Gs172003]

I'm so sorry. Please get some help asap

 

[Betrayed]

I'm so sorry. Please get some help asap

I am but it doesn't seem to help for very long.

 

[Gs172003]

I am but it doesn't seem to help for very long.

It will take time. I know it's not much comfort right now but time honey.

 

[Betrayed]

It will take time. I know it's not much comfort right now but time honey.

ok i hope so everyday is such a struggle

 

[The Albatross]

Your title is, "Betrayed By The Closest One Now Scared Of All" yet you write of spousal betrayal... which, is rationally not "all". Care to explore that more?

Is it easier in some way to conflate it to being scared of everybody rather than deal with the spousal betrayal? If so, why? If not... why not?

 

[Fadeaway]

@The Albatross forgive me for answering for him, but he mentioned in chat this has triggered childhood abuse and feelings of being betrayed by his parents. So, I believe he is referring to a history of being betrayed and this being the accumulation.

@Betrayed, feel free to correct me if I am wrong there.

 

[Betrayed]

@The Albatross forgive me for answering for him, but he mentioned in chat this has t...

No you are correct

 

[sun seeker]

:( So sorry. Betrayal is a horrible feeling. Nothing makes it go away faster, but reaching out and talking about it is a good thing. I'm glad you are here.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I was hurt betrayed and abandoned by wife and it is making my problems so much worse it is so hard to...

If the betrayal happened recently you will need a couple of years to heal because it is very very tough having to face something like that.

I had the same thing with an ex happening over 6 years ago, figure that person cheated on me for many years without my knowledge. Then was stalked by a sicko at work who managed to involve many other people who joined the stalking process. When trusting a person that could have stopped the gang stalking at work that individual actually turned out to be someone that was personally involved with many of those stalkers himself.

I also figured out that these males that stalked me actively attempted to get personal access to my life, like a hunted animal, expressed personal interest towards me instead of helping me. When I made it clear that I did not want their personal interest they went so far as to involve loose females they slept around with and these females have hunted me down ever since believing that I was actually competing with them for the attention of the males they were sleeping around with. Of course this was a trick employed by these looser males, to make the little work prostitutes believe they had to compete with me, when in actuality I wanted to only work there but not have any private relations.

I have learned from such experiences, it is almost like watching the past and stupidity versus the present and witnessing true intelligence, true caring. I know what is happening is happening because someone with real intelligence would never ever want to place me in such danger because that person cares about me. I know that this person knows very well in which danger I am, elevated from females at my current workplaces who have already tried to physically assault me. Yep, only someone with real intelligence can win in such situations. Yep, I have learned a lot.