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Switching Parts-dizzy? Structured Dissociation

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As it wasn't one. It was my comment as a member. Were it anything else, I would have clearly marked it as...

Your moderator badge is prominently displayed on your profile. Every comment you make is a reflection on the leadership of this site. You shouldn't have to be told that. Obviously that goes with the role that someone, at some time, thought you were a good fit for.

You literally mansplained SD to me and told me not to overthink it. Putting aside how disgusting that is...it wasn't even the topic of the post. I didn't solicit opinions on whether I had SD, that is for my T to weigh in on. I can not understand what motivated you to make such a bizarre, misogynistic, and OT response. You should feel ashamed of yourself.
 
@Alphabetzy - hi, I'm @joeylittle and I'm the administrator here. I would recommend you take another look at our community constitution - it will likely help you understand one thing we respect greatly on the site, which is diversity of opinion.

I can hear the condescending tone in your post. I can not believe your arrogance.
I don't think the condescending tone you are reading is actually there. I do think this is a touchy issue for you, and the post hit a nerve.

You literally mansplained SD to me and told me not to overthink it. Putting aside how disgusting that is...it wasn't even the topic of the post. I didn't solicit opinions on whether I had SD, that is for my T to weigh in on. I can not understand what motivated you to make such a bizarre, misogynistic, and OT response. You should feel ashamed of yourself.
Your response here is a real overreaction. Mansplaining? Disgusting? Bizarre, misogynistic, and off-topic? Ashamed of yourself?

I'm really not seeing it.

You're free to take what is useful to you, and leave the rest; if what @Ronin has to say on this subject doesn't appeal to you, don't take it on-board; that's up to you.

Moderators here are all volunteers, and they never stop being members. Our code of conduct does require that a moderator model 'best practice' posting - but in this case, I don't see @Ronin doing anything but that.

Lets put the thread back on track. In the future, avoid jumping to conclusions on tone and intent.
 
Looks like all valuable input here. Sometimes things come across and hit us hard. Maybe there is an important reason you responded that way. Can you look closer at your feelings and see how you felt at that point?
 
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