What Makes You Angry Today?

[Jimmy1]

It's also why we have our own forum. Anthony was getting tired of banning veterans for telling people to suck it up and harden the f*ck up. Think about it. We have 15 or 20 regular members on this forum, some on medication, some not, some who go to therapy, some who don't. We all are also at different stages of our recovery and learning too. Some have only just been diagnosed and some have had it since Jesus was a lad (Hey Jar).

We all have the same colour blood and if we were in uniform and on operation we would all have each others backs, so why not here.

 

[steviebeegee]

jimmy point taken its does effect us differently and looking back i was a fool to take the bait and rather impulsively unleashed the demons inside it has made me realise we all have different views on life and our problems and i know im the bigger man to admit my apololgy to angle and anyone else who heas taken offence which is a lesson learnt.

 

[Jimmy1]

Thanks mate. It does take a better person to admit when they are wrong and it is even harder for us due to military conditioning. The only time you are wrong are when you are told you are, it's part of the training, hey?

Just do me a favor mate, if someone pisses you off, leave it till the next day, if it still pisses you off, you can either use the ignore feature, or you can message them politely. If they make it personal and continue to make it personal then, well you saw what happened to Silent Bob, he did not listen and abused.

I am just here to point it out as others point it out to me if I am wrong.

Cheers bud.

 

[JarHed]

some have had it since Jesus was a lad (Hey Jar).

And I was just minding my own business. :ROFLMAO:

Jimmy is spot on Mate. We're all vets, we have differing views. It's all good. Even as it was in ancient times. :rolleyes:

 

[Ned]

We're all vets, we have differing views.

I don't

 

[steviebeegee]

jimmy very wise words as i used to be really impulsive until my psychchiatrist once said if i have a problem leave it for 24 hours and if still a problem then act upon it. ive learn a hell of alot from him and probably forgot alot of it. thanks jimmy for the reminder.

 

[combatgoldfish]

Been dating this new woman for a little while now. Her daughter is 9 months old. She has her 4 days a week, then the child's father has her 3 days a week. This is the 2nd weekend she's come home without proper care. Noticeably thinner, not given her medication daily, and not properly bathed and changed. Last week I just took at him being a completely lazy shit sack of a father. At the time we couldn't prove him not giving her medication. So, I had the bottle marked this time, and she hadn't been given ANY medication what so ever. I don't understand how some one could deny their own child medication. I'm trying not to go over and physically re-adjusting his thought process. It's taking a lot of restrain on this one.

 

[Barberian]

she hadn't been given ANY medication what so ever.

I strongly advise getting child protective services involved. Weigh the baby before he gets her, Weigh the baby on return. Mark the medication, etc. That shit bag doesn't deserve and probably doesn't want the kid around. He's just using her to hurt the mom most likely.

 

[steviebeegee]

i would then to agree with barbarian its his way of keeping tabs on her and get child protection servising involved they wouldnt take it lying down and probably hell not get any custordy over that child. she is young enough to no realise who her real father was. and goldfish you could defo take on the role. shame.

 

[combatgoldfish]

I don't think I'm letting her take her over there this weekend. I think she's realizing that I'm willing to take on responsibility of a child in my life. I told her if I can take care of soldiers and civilians in a war zone I think I can handle a baby lol

 

[Anglesachse]

Pulled something in or put something out in my neck end of last week.

Got up yesterday and could only move my head and immense pain. So I went see my Witch Doctor, who was concerned about the blue bruise markings around the back of my neck at the base of the skull.

Not had an accident, not been in a scrap nothing. While he was treating me he noticed bruising appearing where he had been applying pressure. Thrombocytopenia? He wants me to get my blood checked.

But he did his thing and applied ointments to ease the pain and help release the muscle tension.

This morning I could hardly get out of bed. Soon as I was awake the pain was out of this world. Was so bad I ended up in the Kitchen in pieces.

I am back to see him again today, but f*ck me, this morning I would of killed anybody dumb enough to ask "Whats up" good job the misses could see I wasn`t doing well.

I know we get used to pain and dull it out, I have suffered over a decade with my back on a 24/7 basis, but being pain free the last couple of years I have forgoten what its like.

But this morning I was a right girls blouse, and thats what has made me madder than the pain.

SUCK IT F*CKING UP

 

[JarHed]

Pain, it just sucks. I've found something that works sometimes. It's called TRAUMEEL. It's a homeopathic ointment. You can find it in a health food store. You apply it topically. It helps, sometimes. I like it as I don't like and can't take certain meds that reduce swelling.