I agree is probably because they had no frame of reference
I think it's letting people off too easy to say they had no frame of reference. Depending on where you live, Ebola, AIDS, West Nile Virus? SARS, MERS? We've been lucky, so far. I don't think it takes much imagination to imagine what it might be like to have a disease that was as contagious as measles and as deadly as Ebola. Honestly, I think we're probably lucky again because this one doesn't look like it meets either of those criteria.
I finally lost my patience with people on Thur. I officially transitioned from "concerned" to "furious". Mostly at people I can't get at, mind you, but I made a couple speeches that started with the line "Actually, that's not true."
Part of the problem, if you want to call it that, was that our governor requested a 2 week "stay at home if you can" interlude, to try to give them time to line up enough resources to hand the wave, when it hits. Within hours, I had a bunch of phone calls, texts, and emails from people wanting to get their horse's feet trimmed. NOT an emergency, as far as I'm concerned. Some things are, and those I'll deal with, but otherwise, they'll have to wait the two weeks.
The other part of the problem is I've been hearing more about what this country has done, in the past, to "prepare" for this kind of thing. And how the White House gang should have had pretty good intel on this disease back in Dec, certainly in Jan. So, maybe THAT would have been a good time to start lining up ventilators? Just saying. I totally agree that blame isn't useful, at this point. At this point efforts should be aimed at getting as many people through this as we can. But, "accountability" is a thing too. When "preparing the country for disaster" is part of your job description, I think you're guilty of dereliction of duty when you fail to take warnings seriously.
On the other hand, I went to see my T today. (He said his kids might chain him to a chair, so he'd let me know about next week, when HE knows about next week.) That trip involved a 2 hour drive to the big city. Along the way, I saw very few cars. Even less than last week and we were under a much less restrictive order last week. I also saw a billboard promoting "social distancing". And another thanking people who work in grocery stores. On the way home, there were people out walking their dogs & riding their bikes, more than usual (especially considering it was a gray, damp day) but they were alone or with a partner. No crowds. All in all, it looked like most people were playing along. Good for them!