ETA2: And I said the above because it almost feels like we are being scolded for having white privilege which we can't do anything about that personally. Other to advocate BLM, too, and being willing to stay open to change ways of thinking. But, I wish people would stop screaming "white privileged" at me like I can change that. No one can change the color of their skin nor how society views us other then to advocate for those of color and those different then us. I just get a lot of anger to me (not here but in real life) because I'm white and privileged and I don't get that. At all!
One part is start understanding it's not about you.
And not about your feelings.
Turning it to YOU, and YOUR feelings... shows just more you don't *get it.* At all. Or why and what at are people angry.
The only white people I'd know of that have a legit cause of race issues running deep are South Africans.
Where apartheid honestly f*cked things up.
And even *there* it starts getting problematic real fast when they try to apply their country racial dynamics to any other country, or race as a whole.
As I had discussions with SA members here, at length, somewhen in... 2015 I think.
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Have you been threatened with & attempted at arson as a 'normal bullying' because your hair did super typical -thing- for your race and oh, the black kids hated your narrow hair?
Were your siblings kidnapped and when asking authorities, you received being laughed at, only, because if your parents don't care, the cops neither?
Were you followed in shops, no matter where you went, as thieves - despite the fact you always paid till the last cent - while your black friends could steal and that shop lifting got overlooked?
Were you not permitted to date certain people, because they are horrible whites?
Were the people you dated despite that refusal beaten near death or TO death, and then set ablaze?
Were you?
Because you don't get the meaning of privilege if you don't get hurts like these.
And given I just triggered myself talking my life with these examples, and f*cked up my race invert reasoning to drive the point home, excuse me.