General Well Maybe Its Like A Plaster?

[lovinbiker]

Long story cut short for the members who dont know me. Usual story guy meets girl, she then starts showing all signs of ptsd after guy has fallen in love. Well ended up splitting up but stayed friends, that was in november.

Well I recieved a txt the other day after sending her daughter a birthday present a few days before.
It went something like, `why are you sending presents its confusing my daughter`
I replied by telling her cos I cared for them both. Well she said that i had to stop had to leave her alone to move on. She asked for her key back and said I need to leave her alone.

Well I tried to fight a case to stay friends, that I still was here for her that I wanted no one else. She said I was pushing her over the edge to a place she didnt want to go, I finished txting after that with `Take Care x`
I have posted her key back with a short note stating I will be there for her always. Ive probably made things worse and am beating myself up that I should have or should not have done this or that. I have to realise that I am unlikely to ever get her back in my life.

One thing I really dont want is for her to hate me and the things she said made it seem that way. I assume she was trying to make it that way to push me away. Well enough of ramblings I have wanted to put words on this forum for a long time but have struglled to get the words out.
Thanks for reading
LB

 

[amethist]

Sorry LB.

This happens all too often, and it is never easy.

Your right about the good guys though, they dont finish last. :)

Take care of yourself, hang around for a while, we are always here.

Amethist.

 

[KP the nut]

(((HUGS))) Sorry LB.

I echo what Amethist said. I'm sorry you are hurting right now, no platitudes, no trite sayings.

Take care of yourself and concentrate on the condom fund :eek:

KP

 

[lovinbiker]

Take care of yourself and concentrate on the condom fund :eek:

KP

Did you just say that LOL :roflmao: :roflmao::roflmao::laugh::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:
Do you know I didnt even explain my title in my post, I was referring to how plasters should be pulled away quickly as it hurts less than a slow release pulling at your hairs. As I feel im hurting more now than if we hadnt stayed friends as ive lost a friend and a GF all in a few months.
LB