Do I Send My Mother's Dog A Gift??

[KP the nut]

Wifeof ... I love the idea :) and it feels like a perfect idea, we have a non-profit animal coalition here that helps the community (I'm sure she uses it as well) to provide low-income, as well as, free services for animal and pet care. This is what I will do.

That sounds great and it will help you to feel better - a win, win situation.

 

[Sammy]

Isn't a drag when the inner-child that never got to be a child, decides it needs to appear at the oddest of times? Mine appears whenever I get stressed. Suddenly I worry about all kinds of things the adult in me says "Whatever." Christmastime is famous for that child to emerge! (((Rain)))

 

[Srain]

Man, have you ever got that right, Sammy!! It comes out of nowhere and slaps me across the face. I turn into this child I don't recognize. I really didn't expect, it's good for me see this, note it, and prepare for it next time. ((((((((Sammy))))))).

A saw baked in a cupcake in case the dog wants to get the heck outa there?

HA!!!!
Now you're talking except this pup has had her tied around his little paw from day one ;) Woof!

 

[Srain]

Okay, so I called, made the donation now I have panic and anxiety...no issues there! :sick:

 

[KP the nut]

(((Srain))), you did good my friend. Now breathe and relax.

 

[Sammy]

Nice!! You done a good thing! Now, let yourself feel good about it, smile and breathe.

 

[mamachick]

Love wife of idea, great choice

 

[Srain]

Told my husband, who is usually a little understandably confused, and he thought it was great! :tup:
I slept great last night!

I think it's a perfect gift from now on, thanks again Wifeof!

 

[anni]

It's a fabulous gift, one I'm going to keep in mind in point of fact. I'd been wondering what on EARTH to do about my sisters this year. I'm in a damned if I do, damned if I don't position. This will be absolutely perfect plus TRULY will benefit someone. I love it, thank you!!

 

[Srain]

KP, I somehow missed you saying the part about sounding like a bad T, HA!!, that was great but you were right, it was only something I could decide. I found all the input invaluable and to date I feel no guilt or anything like that. I haven't heard a word but that means nothing, the cool thing is I'm not stressing whether or not the gift is good enough, is it right, will she think I'm cheap, will she toss in the garbage with a sneer, I feel peace and relief.

Annie, it is a wonderful gift idea for those we feel that need or want to give to. I WANT to give my mother something, I just do, that who I am as a person and daughter. I don't know if that will change but I can live with this arrangement.

I will allow my husband to continue paying for that damned cell phone of hers, grrrr, it would just be spiteful of me not and I cannot allow myself to fall into her games. She can use it or not, Alba, you are right and she can do whatever but it's there in case of emergency and that's the reason I insisted on it in the first place. I need that for her.

I don't know why I have an infinity for these right now but I do, this is what fits:

 

[KP the nut]

I feel no guilt or anything like that. I feel peace and relief.

Reading this made me happy this morning. Good for you Rain.

((HUGS))