Panicking Because Of Neighbor

[Deleted member 12723]

I am glad you are doing better and I am glad you get to move. I hope the new place will be a much happier place for you. Take care and be well.

 

[blackemerald1]

Hi prime-no, thanks for your reply. You sound very capable of handling your PTSD especially as you have a t to help you sort it out. When I was on the plane, I was no danger to anyone, my blood pressure was on the floor and I could not move. The hostess noticed me going white and that's when she got me the extra oxygen. To this day I don't know why it happened in the plane. I did not disassociate - my body just went silly. I understand they had to care for me, so no bad thoughts there. It was just that I don't think they truly get the association between what is happening in your head and what is going on with your body. Maybe I was just unlucky on the day.

Sorry if I raved a bit about the plane trip and my symptoms, should have kept to myself. After all this is about you and your stuff going on.:inpain:

I guess all I am saying is people do not listen, I mean really listen a lot of the time.

As for you making too much noise, I think it was an excuse from the crazy lady to see who you had in your home and make a fuss.
Best wishes for you and I hope you find a new home soon.
blackemerald1

 

[p-no]

Sorry if I raved a bit about the plane trip and my symptoms, should have kept to myself. After all this is about you and your stuff going on.:inpain:

No, please don't think that. Share whatever you like. I am sorry that happened on the plane. I find being on a plane a challenge (not even thinking about my fear of flying, but it's an odd place to be. When then something like that happens, it's double-odd for the person, I should think.

I guess all I am saying is people do not listen, I mean really listen a lot of the time.

This is my experience, too. Although my t has listened always, for some time, she did not listen to what I was not saying. That can be equally important though. :)

That lady... Really, who cares. May she find some peace.

Take care.

 

[p-no]

I contacted the police. We don't seem to have any non-emergency unit, but I found a contact I thought I could get in touch with. Now I'm waiting for "further instructions". I am glad I did it and whatever will come of it.

At first I thought, why bother since I will move soon. But then I figured, she might have another fit before and I don't want to wait for that doing nothing.

I still felt an inner threshold as to not being "allowed" to contact the police, as if I were doing something wrong. It was the fading voice of my mother's, figuratively speaking. When I realized that, I made her keep her d**n mouth shut and did it. I feel good with this.

 

[nimkekaa]

Good for you!

 

[p-no]

Wow, I contacted the police on 17 September and have not heard back from them yet! Wonderful... :confused:

 

[JustBe]

Nice to know you can count on the police to "protect and serve"!:confused::meh::sour:

 

[p-no]

In German, their slogan (rather old) is: The Police -- Your Friend and Helper.

Ummm... :sour:

 

[saffy]

mmmm, very emotional posts.

However I find the term 'crazylady' a bit offensive, I would hate to think someone was saying that about me when I have a turn or act with behaviours I cannot control at times. To be honest its shows lack of emotion and empathy and disregard to others problems and illnesses. Which is what most of us on here are wishing and hoping does not happen.

I have also had awkward and unfriendly neighbours for whatever reason, I know I have done nothing wrong so think that they must have issues of their own, as I have.

I just needed to say this, no offense intended to anyone.

Saffy

 

[blackemerald1]

Saffy I respect what you have said and maybe the name "crazy-lady" is offensive. However, it is not being said to the neighbour in question. Also, this neighbour is bringing her problems to prime-no's door and prime-no has tried to keep her at bay. This neighbour is frightening prime-no by crazy behavior, so prime-no and the rest of us, I certainly include myself, if no one else does, think that 'crazy-lady' is a means to identify and explain this neighbour's presentation if you like.

I am sure that plenty of people have said bad things and names behind my back, in fact I know for sure they have because they have called those same names to my face. I am sure prime-no does not want to use the neighbour's real name for fear that it could expose her, and prime-no needs her privacy, as we all do. "Crazy-lady" is probably not politically correct, but it identifies to the people who have been posting on this thread, who that person is - without going into a long name. Again, it's not a really appropriate name and I do agree with that, but prime-no is experiencing the crazy-lady first hand and I respect her for that too.

Go well

Kind regards

blackemerald1

 

[blackemerald1]

Wow, I contacted the police on 17 September and have not heard back from them yet! Wonderful... :confused:

prime-no, I wonder if a follow up call might be warranted. Just in case it was a junior constable who took your details and stuffed something up. You could say that you are disappointed that you have had no contact and in as nice as way as you can, ask did they lose your details or, is this the normal waiting period for this kind of assistance. Something like that might stir the pot without them getting p#### off with you. Just a suggestion.
Kind regards
blackemerald1

 

[saffy]

Saffy I respect what you have said and maybe the name "crazy-lady" is offensive. However, it is not being said to the neighbour in question. blackemerald1

Hi blackemerald1, thank you for your post, I do agree that we have all had to put up with the neighbours from hell, and I was certainly not undermining what Prime No is going through, that was far from what I meant.

I am just a bit confused that the post gave a label like this and is accepted on a site that is supposed to understand and be empathic to 'crazy' behaviour.

Again sorry if this upset anybody and I really hope that Prime No comes out happy on the other side when she moves away.

best wishes
Saffy :)