Would There Be Any Harm In Sharing?

[Ize]

I will be going to Disney soon with friends for a reunion. But at a few points on the vacay, I will be going solo (which I'm partly looking forward to). When I am exploring on my own, I may end up interacting with cast members for dining, ride lines, etc. Would there be any harm in sharing that I am a "-blank- survivor"?

I know there could be pros to telling; Like giving a better reason for needing to be seated alone on an attraction, or against a wall at a restaurant. But I could probably do that by just explaining that I have PTSD. I know Disney always tries to work with and accommodate guests to make their stay as smooth and "magical" as possible, but would giving very minor details be necessary? I wouldn't be uncomfortable sharing, I just wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable or possibly cause any problems.

Any advice or thoughts are appreciated :)

 

[Tusoke]

It's been my experience to keep things such as this to myself and only share when I feel it is absolutely necessary.

 

[Dawuhi]

That's strange, I just posted the last post but it was credited to Tusoke. Sorry Tusoke, I don't know what happened.

 

[Pofih]

Disney has some pretty strict guidelines dealing with disabilities and if you're curious they can found be with google search. :) You will need to talk to someone at Disney to get a map of disability services and adaptations for rides. I was just in Disneyland last month and the map was very helpful. Often at least in wheelchair you have to go in the exit or another door entirely. You will stay have to stay in lines, get fast passes, and things the whole having a disability so skipping line, being seated alone and such is utter bull. If you want more info on the disability stuff just write here or message wild mermaid. Have fun at Disney!

 

[Golabe]

https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/guest-services/guests-with-disabilities/

 

[Ize]

Thanks guys for the information about how to handle Disney with disabilities, but I'm not really asking about that. I was wondering if it would be a bad thing to make casual conversation about being a trauma survivor with a cast member. I guess this is a stupid question though. I probably shouldn't. I was just wondering your opinions on the matter of sharing with a stranger.

 

[Tizitoj]

Why do you need to tell people?

I blurted it out once because yes I did need to be seated in a specific place and the person just looked at me like "ok, you over shared" with this blank stare on her face.

My advice? Say you have ANXIETY because anxiety will get you everything you need without people thinking you're going to go on a shooting rampage if you get mad. (Stupid media.)

 

[Hajetol]

My experience with Cast Members is that they rarely have time for a chat. Most are quite lovely people though I will say! :) Not a stupid question at all, just hard to reply in Anon format. I don't hide my PTSD nor do I hide my wheels *giggle* nor do I tell strangers about it, as you just cannot predict their reactions. I will say that trying to get into rides/attractions solo without sharing cars with others and stuff probably will not happen. They have so many to fit on the rides, and some who need the handicapped cars (on the few that have them) that they may just pass you by.

 

[Dupu]

Magic words : Disability issue... I need to be ___________.

Also, getting the Disability Service Access Card in advance is highly recommended :)

https://wdpromedia.disney.go.com/me...bilities-services/wdw_cognitive_guide_rev.pdf

 

[Ize]

Tizitoj- When you put it like that, i don't know. I guess I really shouldn't. To be completely honest, aside from explaining my need for things like seating arrangements, I think I'd just like someone else's reaction to it that's not my T. But I shouldn't burden some young kid that's working at a theme park with that. Who knows what they could be dealing with too.
That's a good idea about the anxiety, but why would a person with anxiety have very odd, very specific triggers?

Hajetol- You're right about probably being skipped over, imagine the lines if they let everyone with a story on! :eek:

 

[Ize]

Dupu- I think I'll use those magic words! That would make explaining a lot simpler. Thanks! :tup:

 

[Vateme]

Ok so how is needing your back to a wall or a ride to yourself odd and different than someone who has anxiety?