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Queen Boudica
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OK had really good session with him today. Cleared up a few things. In a much better place now.
He thinks BPD is a really bad label and does not agree with it as the name borderline personality is really stigmatising.
He is saying complex trauma is a spectrum, and that childhood trauma leads to complex trauma (PTSD +), but some develop the what is labelled as BPD, but it is caused by complex trauma. (although Not that all BPD is due to complex trauma)
So I think because my sister was diagnosed with BPD, he was referring to it as complex trauma. Which made me really confused. Because he was saying BPD is complex trauma.
Thing is my sister was not exhibiting those BPD symptoms originally, I think she was complex trauma, but, after being misdiagnosed and put in hospital and then spending years with my abusive mother after that, she got to BPD spectrum of complex trauma. Spending years in that mad house with my mother, would drive anyone completely insane. My mother had No boundaries. I never understood, how she could do the things she did, but I finally got it last week when my psychologist said she just had no boundaries. It was all about her and she would do anything to control and enforce her sick views.
He doesn't think I am BPD, but PTSD due to childhood trauma.
Interesting because at the end we were talking about complex trauma and then PTSD in veterans and he was talking about how the way wars are fought now are so different to World War II. Gorilla tactics, there is no front line. So trauma is constant. Just made me think, it is not PTSD from one single event in that situation, it is complex.
But then, childhood trauma occurs when brains are developing, and from what I have been studying, severe abuse in childhood damages the brain. It affects you when you are supposed to be forming your sense of self. It f*cks up your fight or flight system, so you are in constant alert state and all areas of health are impacted by that.
He thinks BPD is a really bad label and does not agree with it as the name borderline personality is really stigmatising.
He is saying complex trauma is a spectrum, and that childhood trauma leads to complex trauma (PTSD +), but some develop the what is labelled as BPD, but it is caused by complex trauma. (although Not that all BPD is due to complex trauma)
So I think because my sister was diagnosed with BPD, he was referring to it as complex trauma. Which made me really confused. Because he was saying BPD is complex trauma.
Thing is my sister was not exhibiting those BPD symptoms originally, I think she was complex trauma, but, after being misdiagnosed and put in hospital and then spending years with my abusive mother after that, she got to BPD spectrum of complex trauma. Spending years in that mad house with my mother, would drive anyone completely insane. My mother had No boundaries. I never understood, how she could do the things she did, but I finally got it last week when my psychologist said she just had no boundaries. It was all about her and she would do anything to control and enforce her sick views.
He doesn't think I am BPD, but PTSD due to childhood trauma.
Interesting because at the end we were talking about complex trauma and then PTSD in veterans and he was talking about how the way wars are fought now are so different to World War II. Gorilla tactics, there is no front line. So trauma is constant. Just made me think, it is not PTSD from one single event in that situation, it is complex.
But then, childhood trauma occurs when brains are developing, and from what I have been studying, severe abuse in childhood damages the brain. It affects you when you are supposed to be forming your sense of self. It f*cks up your fight or flight system, so you are in constant alert state and all areas of health are impacted by that.