My father always verbally and physically attacked me...hard to believe he was acting like this...4 college degrees and a naval officer...hard to believe he would treat his own son so violently...started attacking me when I was four...still suffer from PTSD to this day...hard to make sense of another persons rage and anger...thanks for letting me be a part of this group
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Sufferer Father's Hatred
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Survivor3
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Hi @pete1201 ,welcome to the site. I have a history of complex trauma, depression and anxiety. Sorry for the reasons your here but glad you found us. I nearly died in a racist attack age 19 and my dad was a violent and abusive alcoholic. Total asshole. It f*cks us up. Living a good life now but still have "unwell" days, anxiety/panic attacks.
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Thanks for your reply...as a group, I feel we can make real changes...once again, thanks for the reply...sorry you had to go through the traumatic events that you did...good luck on your healing journey
arfie
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hello pete. welcome to the forum. sorry for what brings you here, but glad you are here.
don't accuse me of experting, but i thought the charming abuser was something of a cliche. i support the theory that many sick people manage their sparkling community image by channeling their abusive psychoticks onto their families. dunno. . . just a theory. one of many.
but in my own recovery from the unexplained phenomena, it is not my father's hatred in need of healing. the hatred i worry about is the hatred that i inherited. however that hatred got here, it is my soul it is eating holes into. healing hopes needed.
and i pass those healing hopes on to all the members of my healing network. welcome aboard. hope healing happens here.
don't accuse me of experting, but i thought the charming abuser was something of a cliche. i support the theory that many sick people manage their sparkling community image by channeling their abusive psychoticks onto their families. dunno. . . just a theory. one of many.
but in my own recovery from the unexplained phenomena, it is not my father's hatred in need of healing. the hatred i worry about is the hatred that i inherited. however that hatred got here, it is my soul it is eating holes into. healing hopes needed.
and i pass those healing hopes on to all the members of my healing network. welcome aboard. hope healing happens here.
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Thanks for the reply. Noted the information...as a group we can make a difference3
parrotthepolly
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Yeah both my parents seem to dislike me and they shown it in different ways, and "luckily" for me it was "only" psychological and emotional damage so I dissociated to escape cause where else could I go? Home? Never will come across it on this planet I reckon!
Blood relative are not anymore significant than "strangers" in my opinion as well.
Blood relative are not anymore significant than "strangers" in my opinion as well.
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Thanks for the reply...good luck on your healing journey
parrotthepolly
Diamond Member
I can feel this.
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Thanks for the reply...good luck on your healing journey
Hello. Adverse childhood events aka trauma whether emotional physical spiritual is life altering..When there is transmission of trans generational trauma- dysfunction previous generations of family members who did not effectively deal with issues it keeps passing on. Not everything in life is a choice.
Dark.Green.Feathers
Diamond Member
welcome, so sorry for what youve been through.
I grew up with a very bad image of myself, always hated myself to some extent my whole life. it's been helpful to ask where that hatred actually came from, outside of me. understanding it came from abusers and not me has helped cope with some of it. theyre not my feelings so dont belong in me. don't know if you can relate but thought I'd share just in case.
it is scary trying to understand how people can bring themselves to be so cruel.
I grew up with a very bad image of myself, always hated myself to some extent my whole life. it's been helpful to ask where that hatred actually came from, outside of me. understanding it came from abusers and not me has helped cope with some of it. theyre not my feelings so dont belong in me. don't know if you can relate but thought I'd share just in case.
it is scary trying to understand how people can bring themselves to be so cruel.
Rose White
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Also my dad hated me, also attacked me and taunted me. He was a tortured soul. His dad raped his sister for a long time but was real nice to everyone so maybe my dad wasn’t going to be fake by hiding his cruelty, just let it happen. I think it’s probably hard to be a man. My dad f*cked his own life up because everybody left him except his sister.
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