Other Stupid neighbours continue their hatred

[LemoNadka]

Hello All,
This morning my door was scatched with a very long horizontal deep scratch, the kind that people do sometimes on others cars. So you see its made voluntarily.
Honestly it has anger me.
Of course I didn't catch them, they probably did it when I wasn't there.
The problem I've got is when my anger is triggered it become impossible for me to control it. And until now I have managed to not do anything stupid. But I've got a hammer and if I catch someone I might treat them in return. Something I don't want to do. I would like to handle it legally. But what if I can't control my anger and I end up doing smth stupid ? I just don't want to because they aren't worth it. But sometimes you don't always can control what happend. If I also file a complain legally, that could also increase what they could do . I really don't know what to do. It takes usually a lot to anger me, but sometimes depends on what it is and specially when it's attacks towards myself or if it was family or relatives, that got my blood to boil in a second. So if someone got some advices... ? Thx a lot.. have a nice day ALL

 

[Friday]

My house was broken into 2-3 times per week for a couple of years. Mostly while I was out. Sometimes while I was there. I, eventually, just started sleeping on the stairs with a shotgun. Never had to fire it. The rack sent assholes running. But it kept me from waking up in bed with someone on top of me, and having to crunch them with a maglite. Sleeping on the stairs is oddly comfy? Hardwood stairs, I didn’t expect it. Feather bed & hardwood stairs being my 2 fave places to sleep was a BIG surprise. But no one could break in, without waking me, on the stairs.

Overall, however, I spent as little time there, as possible, until I could be elsewhere. House sitting. Sleeping in my car. Travelling.

I’d rather come “home” to a shitshow, literally in many cases, than be fighting people.

You’d THINK there’d come a time when enough of your stuff had been destroyed, that there wouldn’t be anything left. Not so. Shit in your shoes, after all of your clothes have been cut up, and mattresses pissed on, and walls ripped open, and cereal boxes filled with broken glass, and furniture broken up… people are endlessly creative in their destruction. Give them a crater? They’ll piss on it, & set it on fire.

I, eventually, gave up on filing police reports. The police, by and large, were either scared (because the dead animals with creepy poetry pinned to them, as part of a pretty predictable escalation, that kept repeating —vandalism, creepy “gifts”, home invasions- spelled “future homicide &/or missing person”) … or thought I was nuts and attention seeking. Not the second. Sadly. Just being f*cked with by my ex, his asshole friends, and internet-idiots (my ex posted my address on “f*ck with, rape me, etc.” websites for kicks. So some of the break ins were him, and his teeny-wiener-squad of friends. Some were strangers. I still don’t know if the bloke I crunched with my mag lite lived. That’s a serious piece of steel. I got his ribs for sure. His head, maybe. He ran off. So if he DID die, it wasn’t straight away. It… vexes… me. Not knowing.

I didn’t find peace by moving, since I was being targeted by an asshole with a grudge. I only found peace, when he didn’t know where the hell I was… or when I was with people he was afraid of.

A door scratch? In an apartment building? Can be a deliberate insult. Or a drunk getting home. Or movers getting a better grip on a couch or washing machine. On a stand alone house? It’s a coward flickering their attention at you. If it’s a deliberate thing? It will escalate. Bricks through windows and whatnot. Various kinds of vandalism whilst you are not home, whilst you are, breaking in when you’re not home. When you are. Etc. If it’s not? It won’t.

 

[arfie]

my personal approach to this conundrum is to work on the piece over which i have actual control: the hatred which i give in response to these pathetic games. i pray for healing for all.

hate is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ~proverb

 

[Dynamic]

I was severely messed w by old neighbors ended in a 8 months long trial they were found guilty of dangerous to my health harassment and I was forced to sell my house and move by my dr in case I had a heart attack.

I use to imagine smashing their little suv or lighting the house on fire they lived right next door.

Just handled it properly tho and it paid off.

 

[LemoNadka]

My house was broken into 2-3 times per week for a couple of years. Mostly while I was out. Sometimes while I was there. I, eventually, just started sleeping on the stairs with a shotgun. Never had to fire it. The rack sent assholes running. But it kept me from waking up in bed with someone on top of me, and having to crunch them with a maglite. Sleeping on the stairs is oddly comfy? Hardwood stairs, I didn’t expect it. Feather bed & hardwood stairs being my 2 fave places to sleep was a BIG surprise. But no one could break in, without waking me, on the stairs.

Overall, however, I spent as little time there, as possible, until I could be elsewhere. House sitting. Sleeping in my car. Travelling.

I’d rather come “home” to a shitshow, literally in many cases, than be fighting people.

You’d THINK there’d come a time when enough of your stuff had been destroyed, that there wouldn’t be anything left. Not so. Shit in your shoes, after all of your clothes have been cut up, and mattresses pissed on, and walls ripped open, and cereal boxes filled with broken glass, and furniture broken up… people are endlessly creative in their destruction. Give them a crater? They’ll piss on it, & set it on fire.

I, eventually, gave up on filing police reports. The police, by and large, were either scared (because the dead animals with creepy poetry pinned to them, as part of a pretty predictable escalation, that kept repeating —vandalism, creepy “gifts”, home invasions- spelled “future homicide &/or missing person”) … or thought I was nuts and attention seeking. Not the second. Sadly. Just being f*cked with by my ex, his asshole friends, and internet-idiots (my ex posted my address on “f*ck with, rape me, etc.” websites for kicks. So some of the break ins were him, and his teeny-wiener-squad of friends. Some were strangers. I still don’t know if the bloke I crunched with my mag lite lived. That’s a serious piece of steel. I got his ribs for sure. His head, maybe. He ran off. So if he DID die, it wasn’t straight away. It… vexes… me. Not knowing.

I didn’t find peace by moving, since I was being targeted by an asshole with a grudge. I only found peace, when he didn’t know where the hell I was… or when I was with people he was afraid of.

A door scratch? In an apartment building? Can be a deliberate insult. Or a drunk getting home. Or movers getting a better grip on a couch or washing machine. On a stand alone house? It’s a coward flickering their attention at you. If it’s a deliberate thing? It will escalate. Bricks through windows and whatnot. Various kinds of vandalism whilst you are not home, whilst you are, breaking in when you’re not home. When you are. Etc. If it’s not? It won’t.

Hi, thank you for sharing your experience, of course mine isn't as hard as what you've been through though. I wish I would have a shotgun yeah! But then I don't want to get cops on me for these cowards. Nobody has moved in, so it was definetely made it on purpose. It shows how they are cowards because nobody ever confront me in person. I would actually prefer so I would know Wtf is their problems! I keep my hammer near my door and if I catch someone on the fact I will scare them off real good. I've covered my ass, as I've reported it to the landlord so at least of one day I move out they wrote me they will not charge me anything for this on the door. Otherwise if I hadn't they might had made me pay for restore a door. And there's no way I would pay for these bastards. So if anything happens, there's also a trace that I've received that first. I dont know if that would help. That's what's frustrating legally how you're supposed to defend yourself to make sure that doesn't come right back at your own a**? So I do hope for you that they will eventually stop this. I'm a woman but I still think girls who does what your ex has done it's pathetic. And specially to have people sent to harass you at your home. It is sick. Police should get at her if she has also said false accusations.. Good luck and thanks again

 

[Lost in the Woods]

I go to great lengths to not have neighbors close by. I need more than a little elbow room.