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I've been struggling lately a lot about my last relationship. With the respect that I keep harping on myself about how If I could have always done the right thing or acted the right way I would be still in a relationship with my girlfriend. A little back story my ex girlfriend suffered from past...

I'm going through some strong feelings at the moment. I've stayed in contact with my ex that had ended our relationship due to past trauma from another relationship and past life experiences. At the end of our relationship she asked over and over that we stayed friends and that she still loved...

Would you want to be friends with an ex that pulled away due to there struggles with past trauma? My ex pulled away due to feeling triggered around me and ended the relationship. Now she wants to be friends again and I feel like I'm taking on alot of emotional load from her in the few times we...

So I've read alot in the fourms and along with my time with my ex that was working through her past trauma. Has said that consistency is a big big key. I totally agree with this and tried to be as consistent with her as possible when we were together. So my question is how do you stay...

So I've posted this past winter about my ex girlfriend becoming triggered around me due to her past abusive relationship and other past SA. We talked about it and she didn't blame me for anything she was struggling with her trauma and realizing that she could have complex trauma. We tried to...

I finally met up with my ex after months of not seeing each other. I've posted in the past few months about everything that happened and our break up but long story short. My ex with past trauma was triggered while being in a relationship with me and pulled away and finally ended our...

So I've posted about my partner being trigger around me and ending our relationship a few months ago. From that point we have very lightly kept in contact over the months. She had asked me to keep inviting her to things that we both enjoyed and I did however she never actually came to them. We...

Our relationship of a year had ended after my girlfriend told me that she had a resurgence of her past sa trauma. She didn't blame me or hold me responsible. As she put it she felt unheard some times. I was very confused because we had always been very open and communicated especially during...

Feeling incredibly depressed my girlfriend or I guess now ex has ghosted me for 6 weeks now. The last things we said to each other was I love you. I texted her a few times and never heard anything. The only thing remotely close was she view my Facebook story. It's ɓeen hard 4 months since she...

So just some back story I have posted a few other posts about my partner. So me and my partner have had a rough few months due to her being triggered. We slowed our relationship down due to her needing space and time. Basically we've gone from texting and talking each day to text every few...

I had originally posted this as a response in the general rant section, however I'm interested to see how other supporters handle this. So before my partner pulled away she always expected me to act the same way as her abusers in the past even after months of me showing her through my good...

This is a very general question that I know has many factors and is different with each person. But how long did your partner isolate or need space from you after a trigger event?