I finally met up with my ex after months of not seeing each other. I've posted in the past few months about everything that happened and our break up but long story short. My ex with past trauma was triggered while being in a relationship with me and pulled away and finally ended our relationship.
We finally met and she told me that she got it in her had that her moving to a new city and new job was now her chance at a new life. Unfortunately that didn't include me. She said she was surprised by her feelings and it just kept pulling her away from me. Now she's completely pulled herself away from any kind of romantic relationship for the last 4 months and focusing completely on what she wants.
It's definitely still extremely hard to have her just drop me like this. I was trying to support her in anyway I best could and loved her very much and still do. It's hard to move on to say the least. Especially when we hugged and she looked deep in my eyes.
We finally met and she told me that she got it in her had that her moving to a new city and new job was now her chance at a new life. Unfortunately that didn't include me. She said she was surprised by her feelings and it just kept pulling her away from me. Now she's completely pulled herself away from any kind of romantic relationship for the last 4 months and focusing completely on what she wants.
It's definitely still extremely hard to have her just drop me like this. I was trying to support her in anyway I best could and loved her very much and still do. It's hard to move on to say the least. Especially when we hugged and she looked deep in my eyes.