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adjusted or in denial? I heard some key words in there.... of course I had 2 SEAL friends through the yrs and they are not adjusted to start with...
 
I think adjustment and denial are hand in foot. I took 20 years to admit it myself. Some dont ever admit it. He is a tough guy with the image to uphold so I doubt he will ever admit issues. I am so jealous. lol
 
We also have to remember that it is easy to adjust if you have the right therapy, medication, and you are not around constant reminders. Ideally they should send everyone to a deserted tropical island for a month on return. Some good eating, relaxing and a month worth of therapy would be good for the sole.

I heard someone talking about 'Adjustment Disorder' on this forum. They actually have a name for it now but not when I was serving, so I think everyone goes through it.

Look at it in other perspectives. Prisoners who have been locked away for over three months, astronauts who have been on the space station, and even those navy types who chose to live in submarines whould all suffer from a type of adjustment disorder, its natural, you body has retrained. Even people who do shift work for six months or more have trouble adjusting, so its nothing new.

PTSD is a totally different kettle of fish, that is why I think veterans with PTSD suffer from the Adjustment Disorder for a bit longer.



Just an opinion.
 
Agreed. You can put it off. And at first it's easy. Then you get to the point that you know you're putting it off...
 
I agree Ned. Then you have a period of trying to accept it and then getting help. I am a slow stupid man, took me forever. Now its out and I deeply wish it had stayed bottled up. Its just so much to face and it overwhelms me a lot. Maybe I should have been a tough guy like that seal....not a cook :)
 
I came out of the Navy in 1994... did my stint in alcatrez (group therapy sessions for PTSD) then decided I was ok. like Red said, I am a slow stupid man... 17 yrs later here I am and I am desperate for answers... and Steven Seagal is a sissy lol...

Denial is not a river in Egypt... just something from the substance abuse classes I went to lol.. thought it catchy..
 
I like that one Tom. Denial. That is a major problem the military has with PTSD. They just don't want to believe anyone can have it. They should give it a serial number and put it in the stores, that way nobody would get it.

I was a substance abuser too mate. I grew my own hydro from seeds I got from Holland. I firmly believed that I was fine. It alsmost cost me my son, he was almost taken away from me. I still love the smell of it today and believe that with a bit more research they could harness some of the chemicals for a good purpose.
Being stoned is a good way to watch life go by, but you might as well take a long walk off a short peir. There is no future.

Waffling now, sorry.
 
lol naw... and I don't partake now... but ya no feeling like the stone cold and mellow of good pot... (been yrs and yrs since I partook) and ya... the military won't believe they could have betrayed us... or that something we were paid to do and was our job could affect us so...

I just know I need to try to keep on the straight and narrow... ya like I said in another thread I am self medicating but hopefully this new med I start tomorrow will help... it's just I wanna go to sleep at night so I drink... otherwise I stay awake... I could take Trazadone but honest? I am scared of dreaming... with the alcohol I rarely dream... and most of the time if I do it is nonsense...

and saying that.... what grown ass man is afraid to go to sleep and dream? lol irony I think...
 
The problem with alchohol mate is that you don't actually sleep, you are in a stupor. That is why we wake up feeling like shit.
 
as I am sitting here trying to focus I can't agree with you more... there's a lot on my mind after last night and I am thinking maybe I need to take a break and slow down... maybe I took this recovery thing a little too fast and I am opening up some old doors that at least for now need to stay closed... I dunno... Maybe I need to talk to the shrink and see how I go about this whole thing.. this is the first time I have really tried to deal with it... last time it was just to appease the psychologist... this time I am looking for peace... or whatever of it I can have..
 
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