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1st Wedding Anniversary Thank You

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Nicolette

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It is only four more sleeps until our first wedding anniversary! No huge deal but we want it to be the start of many until 'death do us part'.

I always wanted to grow up, have on a princess dress and marry my prince and live happily every after. Finally, after 15 years of not being with or meeting the right guy, the man next door came over and introduced himself. I thought, men, I'm so over them, especially one recently out of a relationship.........run for the hills :eek:. Little did I know this man had sworn himself off women for 12 months and he just came over due to my son going to his son's birthday party and to be neighborly.Who would have thought this man was to change my life forever. :smile:

Well, I found my prince (PTSD and all :rolleyes:) and almost a year ago I wore my princess dress and am looking forward to living the rest of my life with Anthony along with the roller coaster ride of PTSD. It's really not as bad as the saying "warts and all" as warts you can see and they are grosse; PTSD is just an illness which came with the package. :wink: (I do not mean to dismiss anyone and am just posting this with a humorous intent.)

Now with the history of 3.5 years condensed into 3 paragraphs I once again come here to thank the wonderful people on this forum. Last year we received gifts, kind gestures and cards from all over the world thanks to the kindness in the hearts of people who have PTSD and those who are their significant others. It was very touching.

Today in the mail we received two 1st Anniversay cards, both from England. Thank you Amethist and hubby for your gorgeous card (my favorite colors) and your kind words and thoughtfulness. While not dismissing Amethist, we were amazed to receive a hand made card from Cherryblossom using our original avatars drawn by Evie (Batgirl). Thank you CB.

While we expect nothing, it is so touching to know people on the other side of the world, who only know us via a forum would go to so much trouble just for us. It is actually even more apt as the first wedding anniversary gift is paper so the cards we have received will be treasured as keepsakes.

Can't tell you what I am getting Anthony (other than something in paper) and I can't tell you yet what he is getting me (but wow, I am counting the sleeps as I am very excited).

Anyway, enough rambling...thank you again.
 
What a wonderful story. It is so nice to hear the love you have for your man in your words. I hope your special day brings you the best things a girl needs, such as the very best of chocolate, a pink cupcake with frosting, maybe a new pair of shoes and a glass of wine in the bathtub together, or even a sweet, milky cup of tea. I am guessing Anthony would like a slab of moist, chocolate cake.

Good marriages need to be celebrated by all. Congratulations.
 
Thanks Cynthia..... we are going out for dinner at the restaurant where we had our wedding reception at so a big slab of authentic tiramisu will be on Anthony's mind. As for me, pink will be the color of the day but I can't say anything yet and, even though it will be ready on Friday, I am not allowed to have it until Sunday. I told Anthony to be prepared for a 4am wake up :rofl:
 
Enjoy you special day Anthony & Nicolette. I wish you both well, and many more happy special days in the years ahead of you.....
 
Thanks much for sharing your anniversary and story, Nicolette-truly! Believe it or not am a terribly socially avoidant person, and am rather humbled by the genuine community observed here. I can do 'sufacey' stuff, but meeting people on a real level here and allowing it is entirely new territory at 52! Also believe it or not, it's still hard, although extremely valuable. Hearing lovely news like yours so freely posted in a community is delightful! That is a great story, too-which would make anyone smile.

Happy first anniversary, and am sure there will be decades of 'happys' after this one!

Anni
 
Congrats Nicolette and Anthony. I've heard that making it through the first year is the hardest part of marriage. Now that that's almost behind you, you've got so much to look forward to.

From one old, married broad to another.:wink: Happy Anniversary.

Lisa
 
Congratulations..your fairy tale gives me hope, thank you! I am very happy for both of you, enjoy each other...You have both worked very hard to achieve your happiness.
 
Thanks Anni, Grama-Herc, Midi, Jawn, Jadebear, Lisa and Pandora. (Glad to be an inspiration of hope Pandora).

Anthony is allowing you a sneak peak at my anniversary present - my eternity ring (with every second diamond being an argyle pink diamond).....much cheaper than having children and the joy will last just as long :rofl:.

The ring is the same as my channel set diamond wedding band with the only difference being the pink (which I loooooooooove) diamonds. As they are expecting the argyle diamond mine to close in 2018 due to the diamonds running out, and Australia being the only place in the world where they are currently found, I will also have a piece of history. :occasion:

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