WanderingSoul
Bronze Member
Something been weighing on my mind. It is hard for me to go into as I had been through so much already. But it bothers me so much that I went through it. This person accused me of gas lighting once. I had no idea what he was talking about.
My mother had been dating a guy. When I first met him he wasn't very friendly. I had recently had a spinal cord injury and a beggining eruption flare of psoriasis. But this guys attitude towards me was that I was a mommas boy who needed to stop living with his mother and go back out and work like everybody else. What do you do for a living I asked him. I build octagons he tells me. I told him about all the bulding I help put up for the city. And his response was no you didn't. My mom would tell me hes just a competitive mans man and he needs to not give me any trouble. She liked him though. And I was considering moving in with a girl I was seeing at the time. She could use my help. And I had helped my mom get by for a long time financialy. So I moved into a place with my girlfriend and my mom got convinced by this guy, lets call him fred. So Fred convinced my mom to move out of state.
So a year or so went by. I was hobbling with a cane. My psoriasis was at its worse. It got so bad I could not burden my girlfriend with my issues any more. So we had to split up. I ended up talking to my mom who invited me to her home until I recovered. And thats when Fred starting getting rather, out of hand.
This guy eventually started accusing me of faking what I had gone through. No matter what I had told him I had done for jobs his reposnses were 'no you havent, no you didn't'. He did not believe I was going to treatments, that I had any spinal injury. I broke my neck at work 3 times today and I still went he said once. Creampuff he called me. He would call people creampuff or speggheti sometimes. And one day he said I was a gaslighter. And he said I could not pull any wool over his eyes. That I had the mind of a four year old. And he could see through me like glass. And I was a liar and a thief etc... I was going through my worst. And this guy threatened that if I did not move out again even in my condition, that he would leave, and it would be my fault my mom would be heart broken and alone. He flicked my on the forehead with his finger while I was sick. You aint foolin me he said. I wanted to knock his lights out. Although he was maybe 300 lbs. I had lost so much weight being sick.
I had a lawyer who was helping sort through this mess. He didn't believe I had a lawyer either. So I told the lawyer the situation, and he actually agreed to come by to talk with me in person seeing as I could not get around to well. Fred still didn't believe me. He was trying to tell me the game is all over. When no lawyer shows up you'll be lucky I don't break you in half. I still couldn't believe this guy. So the lawyer showed up. And Freds response was 'which one of his friends are you?'. My lawyer wasn't to happy. I explained to my lawyer I had to rush things because I couldn't live there anymore. I had no where to go. I didn't have one moments rest trying to recover. I did what I could to stay away and not jeopardize my mothers relationship. But this guy turned out to be a psychopath. I told him I had to stand up to thugs like him before. I'm not afraid of bullies even twice my size. I've seen some tough people break and be humbled. Thinking about it still bothers me. I've gone through enough already. I didn't need some deadbeat twice my size who only made his money at cards while he lied about working. After I left for my mom to try and fix things between them and how she tried to convince him to accept me, he still left. He left her with all the bills. So I took what I had left. And helped my mom again like I had before. I still talk to my X-girlfriend. But I can't expect her to want to be with a guy who may need screws in his neck. It is what it is. This was a big guy who use to say he was an honorary this and that. I knew people that had been where he had claimed to go though. And I think that made him nervous. When I look back at it. That must of been what happened. I had friends where he claimed to have been.
My mother had been dating a guy. When I first met him he wasn't very friendly. I had recently had a spinal cord injury and a beggining eruption flare of psoriasis. But this guys attitude towards me was that I was a mommas boy who needed to stop living with his mother and go back out and work like everybody else. What do you do for a living I asked him. I build octagons he tells me. I told him about all the bulding I help put up for the city. And his response was no you didn't. My mom would tell me hes just a competitive mans man and he needs to not give me any trouble. She liked him though. And I was considering moving in with a girl I was seeing at the time. She could use my help. And I had helped my mom get by for a long time financialy. So I moved into a place with my girlfriend and my mom got convinced by this guy, lets call him fred. So Fred convinced my mom to move out of state.
So a year or so went by. I was hobbling with a cane. My psoriasis was at its worse. It got so bad I could not burden my girlfriend with my issues any more. So we had to split up. I ended up talking to my mom who invited me to her home until I recovered. And thats when Fred starting getting rather, out of hand.
This guy eventually started accusing me of faking what I had gone through. No matter what I had told him I had done for jobs his reposnses were 'no you havent, no you didn't'. He did not believe I was going to treatments, that I had any spinal injury. I broke my neck at work 3 times today and I still went he said once. Creampuff he called me. He would call people creampuff or speggheti sometimes. And one day he said I was a gaslighter. And he said I could not pull any wool over his eyes. That I had the mind of a four year old. And he could see through me like glass. And I was a liar and a thief etc... I was going through my worst. And this guy threatened that if I did not move out again even in my condition, that he would leave, and it would be my fault my mom would be heart broken and alone. He flicked my on the forehead with his finger while I was sick. You aint foolin me he said. I wanted to knock his lights out. Although he was maybe 300 lbs. I had lost so much weight being sick.
I had a lawyer who was helping sort through this mess. He didn't believe I had a lawyer either. So I told the lawyer the situation, and he actually agreed to come by to talk with me in person seeing as I could not get around to well. Fred still didn't believe me. He was trying to tell me the game is all over. When no lawyer shows up you'll be lucky I don't break you in half. I still couldn't believe this guy. So the lawyer showed up. And Freds response was 'which one of his friends are you?'. My lawyer wasn't to happy. I explained to my lawyer I had to rush things because I couldn't live there anymore. I had no where to go. I didn't have one moments rest trying to recover. I did what I could to stay away and not jeopardize my mothers relationship. But this guy turned out to be a psychopath. I told him I had to stand up to thugs like him before. I'm not afraid of bullies even twice my size. I've seen some tough people break and be humbled. Thinking about it still bothers me. I've gone through enough already. I didn't need some deadbeat twice my size who only made his money at cards while he lied about working. After I left for my mom to try and fix things between them and how she tried to convince him to accept me, he still left. He left her with all the bills. So I took what I had left. And helped my mom again like I had before. I still talk to my X-girlfriend. But I can't expect her to want to be with a guy who may need screws in his neck. It is what it is. This was a big guy who use to say he was an honorary this and that. I knew people that had been where he had claimed to go though. And I think that made him nervous. When I look back at it. That must of been what happened. I had friends where he claimed to have been.
