Poll Are You The Firstborn, Middle or Lastborn Child?

[Heather]

• 1/2 sister Melissa - Oldest. 45 y/o Found out about her about 8 yrs ago. she hired P.I. that found my mother. Had been looking for her for 20 yrs.
• Jennifer (yuck) 42 y/o
• Me 38y/o

 

[AngelaMarie]

I am the firstborn. I was ignored, my brother was pampered and treated like a little prince.
However, I may have my problems, but he is much worse off at this point. Alot of good they did either one of us.:oops:

 

[missing_the _sunshine]

Middle child.
1 older sister - passed away as a baby
1 older brother - 3 yrs older
Myself
Younger brother - 5 yrs younger

 

[Srain]

Middle child, only girl, named for a boy - odd but true, first girl in our family on my father's side for 4 generations, think he was upset at the attention his dying father gave me after the murder of his only brother (golden boy), it didn't go to him. He was a very passive aggressive, rageful, man. Once again a reminder sexual assaults are about power not sex. Had the young pretty blond then removed her from friends and family and wham! Child after child until miscarriages ended that.

Middle child syndrome with a twist. Interesting question and as always, each "bowl of soup" is full of different ingredients making the order of birth complex when you add in the gender, addition of step parents, more than one set of biological parents in the family, and underlying dynamics such as types of abuse, as in my case pedophilia and unresolved family traumas eeking out all over everyone in the family.

Rain

 

[The Albatross]

1st born here.

 

[Linda Lee Bogard - King]

Firstborn of five -

 

[Kintsugi]

I'm the last adopted child of the family I grew up in and the second-to-last of my biological family. My whole family always called me the oldest, though. I remember meeting someone with my whole family once. I was in between my brother, six years older, and my sister, fourteen years older. I was thirteen at the time. When asked, "Who is the oldest?" both of my siblings looked down at me directly. Maybe perception has something to do with all of this? Until I was fourteen I embraced my station as "the oldest" even though I wasn't, so I mostly served as a caretaker. The F'ed up part is that my older brother was my abuser, so... it was a weird dynamic.

 

[jokuzzi]

Youngest of 9. Forever the "baby". The general opinion is I was spoiled. They all booked as fast as they could and left me to deal with... Spoiled my a@@!!!!

 

[Philippa]

Firstborn. I'm the guinea pig they made all the mistakes with.

 

[ronin47]

The youngest, weakest, and most vulnerable.

 

[caliaviator]

Only child, though technically I was assembled at NAS El Centro by an Aviation Machinist's Mate using leftover/missing body and engine parts.

I'm powered by a mix of JP-5 and urinal cakes btw.

I know I have a disturbing sense of humor. :confused:

 

[shell]

Middle child, sort of, I am a twin he is the youngest