Educating yourself is the best thing you can do. I know it’s hard to stand back, it’s natural to want to help. But the truth is, it’s up to him to fix himself. He has to be the one to do the work. Being a supporter is just that, supporting. If you want to help, taking care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally is the way to do so. When someone can see you have the ability to look out for yourself and they don’t have to do it for you lessening their stress and at times guilt. Your in a place right now for your own self growth, as hard as it can be at times you will be stronger for it, stay in the positive.