Can Someone Help Cause I'm At A Loss

[Deleted member 43454]

Hey Aronoch,

Welcome brother.
PM me anytime as well.
I'm always on here.

 

[atilla]

Welcome home Brother. I'm on my 4th marriage thanks to the beast. Like the guys said you're not alone here. I'm here all the time also, so, im available any time to talk.

 

[Aronoch]

Thanks I've had 3 and two engagements last on I'm currently in. Glutton for more punishment I quess

 

[atilla]

Guess I'm right there with you Bro..It does get better man, just have to take the baby steps, one at a time. First, help yourself Brother. We have guys on here that have been dealing with the beast for 40+ years, and they're still around. They know what they are talking about. With the right tools in the tool box, life can get better. This forum is another great tool to go in the box. By the way, Desert Storm vet too Bro. Peace.

 

[JarHed]

Hey Ned,

Thought maybe the cat was havin' kittens. Good to see ya'.

 

[BaMuoiBa]

Aronock, sounds as if the Beast had it's way with you, good to see you made it through the maze of "T" BS.

"This wald il hawyaa says to me well if I had lead my boys the right way then they wouldn't have did right?"

What happened is what you will have to live with for a life time. The "T" has never walked in your shoes and would guess would not even have the stones to put them on.

Keep talking, we'll listen, we know and we'll be here for you brother.

Ba

 

[OldDoorGunner]

Welcome Aronoch, Old Nam vet here. Not much to add, as the guys & gals got it covered. Oh one thing, is to start reading and also look at the video's.....Lots of good Intel here on the Beast....

J R

 

[timallen50]

Aronoch, another Nam vet... It got to where I could physically feel the anger about to explode out of me. I blew up so many times. First wife left me... And then I found this one - she was Heaven Sent - the Lord looking out for me. . It got to when I started feeling that anger I would tell her that I needed to be alone for a while. She has been incredible with me - putting up with the way I could be. The time alone helped me calm down so that I didn't take it out on her. I would just curl up and end up going to sleep. She said it was my way of dealing with the stress. It never goes away - it's always there in the background. But now, when that Beast tries to get out, I get away from her - go running, ride my bike or my motorcycle, go read and let the Beast go back to sleep - till the next time. Lots of help on here... lots of good people. This is where I first came when things started getting bad - the VA said I was just depressed. Ended up going to see someone private and in the tests I took the Beast showed up. The doc called it Survivor's Remorse... Stay with this place... the people here are great, they're brothers and sisters who will help anyway they can.

 

[Aprooster74]

Welcome Aronoch,
There is a lot of incite, knowledge, experience and just plan old companionship here. The best advice I can give you is just be straight up and honest and more often than not you will find the answer/guidance you are seeking. Plus, if you just having a bad day you can blow up to :devil:

Patrick

 

[RTO]

I just joined here tonight because I am at a key anniversary date and I just need to feel connected. So I am mindlessly hanging out and posting. I truly hope I can be of some help when my concentration improves and my comfort level increases. Helping other Vets gets me through some tough times.

Gets me outside myself.